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writes:Im an asian (oriental) guy living in Dublin. Theres is this one guy that I like (he was my first gay love and he took my virginity), we used to be friends but he abandoned me nearly two years ago for some reasons and moved to spain. Now that hes back here in Ireland I couldn't stop thinking about him. I have the same feelings for him since he left me. In fact I didn't made an effort to find a potential boyfriend during the past 2 years because I was really really like him. This made an impact to my health and education as well. I stalk him online (I know its not right). I want to talk to him but I know that he won't talk to me. I know where he live but I dont want to agitate him.I want to find a boyfriend to forget him but I find it difficult to find one. Im not an anti-social person but I find it hard to communicate properly with people as english is not my first language. Im really also not the party type of person. I categorize myself shy - nice guy.any suggestion to overcome my problem? Thanks alot!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBy the way He was not my ex .. the moderator changed the title :/
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2012): you need to put yourself out there to meet new people. just because you're naturally shy is not a reason to isolate yourself, unless you really enjoy being alone. you don't have to be a party animal, but you do need to push yourself out of your comfort zone a bit if you want to make new social connections. Part of the reason you're so fixated on your ex bf is because he was your only relationship, period. If you can manage to get out there and socialize more, even if you don't immediately find a new bf just making more new friends and having more social connections will help to ease your loneliness and you'll find it easier to let go of your ex.
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