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writes:There is this woman who I love so much more than any anyone I came across in my life, for the first time in over a year we begin to talk to each other over some social network site when she invited me. last time we had a real communication we ended in a bad way.. now we trying to reconnect, the thing is I'm still in love with her, I have always loved her.. the feelings that I have for are so real I can't think about anything or anyone when I am thinking of her, but the problem is I know she doesnt feel the same way but she wants to get along with me. how do I make her open up her heart to me without just coming out and saying it because it will brush her off again? Reply to this Question
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reader, reignmillan  +, writes (3 February 2012):
One thing good about social network site is that it gives you ample time to know each other but with your situation please if you will meet again, do make some compromises, don't stretch your neck so high that she can find it intimidating. Be humble so as not to create clashes. If ever you don't succeed winning her again, at least you learned something from the first, that is what I learned with my date through www.speeddatingonline.com.au . Now we are taking it one step at a time.
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (2 February 2012):
Hi there. This communication now, is after more than a year of no communication - is that right?
So What happened before that year gap?
Were you a couple then, or was it always talking via the internet?
So what I am really asking here is, have you actually met each other - in person?
You say you love her more than anyone you ever met, which sounds like you must have met at some point.
If you can clarify for me as to which it is, well then I can help you further.
Because at the moment, I don't have enough information to give you a more detailed answer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2012): Well if she doesn't want you then you can't really change that. It might be better to stay apart than to see her when you want something she doesn't. Might be less painful.
But you haven't really given the detail in all this, so it's had to tell what the bad communication was or whether you did something to make her distrust you or to put her off.
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