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Archived questions from: November, 2011 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

Numerous problems with girlfriend and I just don't feel loved anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 November 2011 (M) - Hi all, my first post here, and I need some advise. I've been dating this girl for some number of years now. We've had our good times and our bad times like any couple, but now I don't really feel like she is the one. We've had proplems before,...

I only lied to avoid a fight. She's aggressive and doesn't trust me. Should I break if off with her?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

30 November 2011 (?) - I'm an insurance agent by trade and I sat down with one of my girlfriends friends. I sold her a policy. But recently my girlfriend called her up, and asked her if anything is going on between us. I think it's inappropriate, along with her constan...

Am I being cold-hearted?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

29 November 2011 (M) - I have been married for over ten years and have 2 kids. For the last two years I have been unhappy in the marriage. When I started thinking about divorce, I went to my wife and would tell her things that were bothering me and that i would like to ...

It used to be sooo amazing until we moved in together.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - I have been dating my fiance for 4 1/2 years. We were that disgusting couple that every one who walked past us probably thought we should get a room. Ever since we moved in with eachother, our love life and sex life went down the drain complete...

I have major trust issues because of my ex. How can I ensure I do not ruin things with my new guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - Hi there..last year i was very very heart broken. i found out that the guy i had been dating for the past year had been engaged to someone else abroad. he lied to me many times...i genuinely thought he was my soul mate. He has recently split up fro...

My ex boyfriend is going to call me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4741 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - I broke up with my guy a month ago, we both are 31. He said he's not 100% sure about me and said he needs time to think about our relationship. He wanted to talk with me later, but I said no, because he always said I'm the one who spend his li...

Was low self esteem a factor in the demise of these relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - Hello guys :) I would really appreciate some insight on an issue! In the past 3 years (basically since I started dating), I've been badly hurt by 2 men. I was involved with each of them for around a year, so they wasn't exactly short-term r...

I want to break it off with him. But its like he has me on a leash. How do I find the strength?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4742 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - Hi I'm 17 and I've been with this guy for about 6 months now. He's my brothers friend, well they're not really friends but they know each other. He was so nice and sweet in the beginning but now oh my god he is the worst. He treats me like s^^t and...

Why am I the bad guy for leaving? She lies and cshe heated on me 5 times.How do I get her to leave me alone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

27 November 2011 (M) - I have ended my 4 year relationship after catching her cheating for the 5th time. She still tries to contact me, bitterly and never mentions or changes the subject, when i try to tell her why we have broke up. She used to blame me for driving her ...

I don't think I love my partner anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - Im so confused.... I am 23 so is my partner we got together when we were 15 had children at 19 and 21, I feel like we are at the end of our relationship I have no one I feel I can truely talk to, I think I've just grown and changed since the 15 y...

I don't feel the spark for my boyfriend whom I am in a long distance relationship with, and I have cheated on him three times now!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - Dear cupid, I need your help. I have been dating my boyfriend for 1year now. its a long distance relationship. Of late my boyfriend does call me as usual and all but lately I feel like he's kinda changed he is too busy for me, he doesn't give me ...

My abusive husband threatens to label me a bad mother if I leave him

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - Our daughter is four. the other night I was so ashamed when my little girl tried to stop my husband hitting me. She physically tried to push him away. He is always kind to her and he waits until she is asleep before he starts to be nastier to me. I...

How can I put all my troubles aside so I can be more level headed and happy again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - Im no longer the girl he fell in love with. Ive known my boyfriend for years, we became very good friends at uni then we became a couple about 9 months ago. I have always been a happy sunshine positive person and that is what he knew me as. Howe...

He isn't happy with her. Should I pursue him? Our co-workers think we are already an item.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

22 November 2011 (F) - There's this guy I work with and I've really grown to care about this guy. We don't see each other outside of work much, but we are around each other at work all the time. We started out as just friends, but lately I started noticing a diff...

How can I divorce my husband when I'm all he has?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

21 November 2011 (F) - I've posted a few times now and had some really good replies. I'm now in a situation where I am so unhappy with my life/marriage that I am actively pursuing affairs. In the 7 years we have been together we have grown apart, we are so different now. ...

How do I move on? Lost all my friend. Broke up. Is it my fault that my ex now drinks so heavily and smokes weed? He never did those things with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4748 days ago

20 November 2011 (F) - Okay... This has been something that has affected my daily life for almost a year now. I'm fourteen I am a freshman and I start on the varsity basketball team. I have two parents who love me and have never given up on me after the horrible things I ...

8 months later and things have died down between boyfriend and I

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4750 days ago

19 November 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for 8 months and lately for about a month now, things have died down a bit. sometimes i wont hear from him all day liketoday for example its 6:30pm and we havent talked all day. if i question him he will say 'oh ...

Boyfriend of 11 months broke up with me out of the blue!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4751 days ago

17 November 2011 (F) - This is bit of a read sorry, but I'd really like some outsider input on this. I guess I now can no longer call him my boyfriend, so my ex, let's call him A, broke up with me tonight. We're both eighteen, he graduates school tomorrow, I grad...

I feel it is my duty to stay with her. But I don't fancy her any longer!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

16 November 2011 (M) - I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend now for 5 years in total (though we have split up twice in this period for about a year each). When we first got together everything was amazing and we fell madly in love. After 2 years things started ...

How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?

This question has 37 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

14 November 2011 (M) - i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...

Why do guys feels the need to brag?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4755 days ago

14 November 2011 (F) - Why do guys brag? He was a party boy and obviously I didn't give him anything sex-related/making out related to brag about. so... when people asked why we hung out around one another...he said that I hung around him and even the police couldn't...

I cancelled plans to visit my long distance boyfriend. Now he says he doesn't love me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

14 November 2011 (F) - I was supposed to go visit my LDR boyfriend but didn't because of stresses in my home life and lack of funds (he said he would've helped with money, but then I wouldn't have any). Now he says he doesn't love me anymore! I've told him that I ...

I feel unwanted and under-appreciated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4756 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for just over 3 years, we have 2 children, weren't planned, but we are happy. The problem is he never shows affection to me very much, he will tell me he loves me and wants to be with me forever and sees a future, but ...

At what point can you no longer justify a relationship? marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4756 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - At what point can you no longer justify a relationship? marriage? There is this old saying that love is not enough, how many of you believe this? For example, i have witnssed a couple risk their children's lives by driving dangerously beca...

Will we ever be passionate again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4757 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - My relationship has been full of ups and downs. We have always been there for one another and we always have each other's back. We're best friends. But one day two years ago we broke up and I ended up seeing other people, but I didn't sleep with ...

Broke up with my boyfriend, then reconciled, and the man I met during the break up thinks I was just cheating

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4757 days ago

12 November 2011 (F) - I need some serious mature advice. I do not want "do what you feel is right" kind of advice .. because honestly I do not know what is right no more. Okay, I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half but we broke up for 2 weeks due to compl...

Did I freak her out with my last text?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

12 November 2011 (M) - Hi, I met a girl last week at my friends party. She danced with me for over an hour we kissed quite a bit and she really showed interest staring into my eyes holding me all that stuff. She asked if I wanted to exchange numbers with her and we did. I ...

I don't want to end up getting attached to someone who I'm going to end up having to take care of like a baby when I'm older.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4757 days ago

11 November 2011 (F) - Hello everyone, To make it kinda short and sweet, I'll just get right to the point. I've been dating this guy who's two years older than me for about four years now. I'm 18, he's 20. Being a Senior this year at high school, it defiantly go...

Is My ex being cruel and manipulative? Please help me. What actions shouldel I take to get him to stop harassing me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4758 days ago

11 November 2011 (F) - Hi I recently (2 weeks back) broke up with my bf of 1.5 years cause he cheated on me and this is not the first time. From the day i broke up he has been callingme every day. He is a sweet talker and manipulator, so i didnt pick up even one o...

My girlfriend says I'm boring

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

11 November 2011 (M) - I need help with my girlfriend She constantly says I'm boring and annoying She hates whenever I talk about stuff she does that make me mad and annoyed because she says that's not manly and that she wants a man. She also says I'm boring when I kn...

Still in love with my ex, my life is in ruins. I need some perspective.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4756 days ago

11 November 2011 (?) - i feel stupid even writing this. as if i've let myself down. i split with my boyfriend of nine months, three months ago. im 16 years old,and had only known him a year. surely i should be over this now. i've been telling myself everything under th...

Does a Player Make Girls their Girlfriends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

10 November 2011 (F) - Why did he go cold? I was in an emotionally abusive relationship for 18 months. Right towards the end i met this guy who seemed great and he msg'd me and talked to me all day everyday he was so keen. When my relationship finally fell thru with the ...

I feel like I am losing her and don't know what to do. Please help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

9 November 2011 (M) - Hey everyone. I'm in need of help, I feel my relationship is in serious trouble. Okay so basically I've been with this girl for a year and a bit now and well to be quite honest it's been the best year of my life. We met PURELY out of chance an...

Married 5 years now. Is this relationship still intact? Worth saving? He's coming home soon.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 November 2011 (F) - Hi guys, i am so confused and sad. My husband has been outside the country for almost 3 months now. He rarely calls. When he does it is usually for short time. He is so jealous, if i tell him i hav gone out with lady friends, he calls and shouts a...

They tolerate each other. And I should be able to choose between the two. But who can I choose and live with my decision?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 November 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I was in a relationship off and on for years with my ex. we could not seem to communicate effectively and I fell out of love with him long before I asked him to leave. only due to conveniences I lived with him. He kept a job and prov...

My Boyfriend versus the guy I really like? They are friends. The other guy wants me to stay with my Bf. Which one do I choose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

8 November 2011 (F) - am 19 i have been with my current boy friend for almost a year. he really loves me, and i like him too but i dont love him. i care about him. but am insecure around him, i dont like being in his company. There is another guy (guy two), he is my bes...

Give it another chance? or is he using me? do you guys think he lied to me when he said he didn't meet anyone?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

7 November 2011 (F) - Dear friends... i need some advice. I broke up with my bf 5 months ago and It's been really hard. I know our relationship wasn't working and that we tried so many times to be ok, but we argued a lot! i never stopped missing him, though... ...

Was she really into me at all? And am I just using these girls and my emotions as a means to drown my sorrow?

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6 November 2011 (M) - Mod Note: two questions combined as one with the suggested title provided by the OP for the second question also included as it provided new info. My girlfriend (just recently became my EX) told me in a text message last night that "I think we...

My wife is lazy

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

6 November 2011 (M) - I have been married for a couple of years now and most things are fine but I find my wife is lazy. This laziness does not extend to her work, as she works very hard and for long hours (we both do), its every other aspect of our lives she is lazy. I ...

Feel like I'm falling apart. Am I a fool to think happiness could be mine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

5 November 2011 (F) - I have just split up from my partner of nearly 12 years. We have 2 young children. I had stopped loving my partner many years ago although i only told him it was about 2 years ago. It took me a long time to admit it to myself and even longer to ...

Facebooks destroyed my life........found that he's not over his ex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

4 November 2011 (F) - I hate facebook. it has literally just destroyed me. I was talking to my bf online, when in the message window it said I could look at some of his old statuses. Me being me (rather nosey) decided to have a look. And there in front of me were loads ...

If a woman breaks up with a guy and loses all feelings for him, then has several relatively intense new relationships, can she ever get the old feelings back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

3 November 2011 (M) - I first met my fiance about 9 years ago (she was 25, and fairly recently divorced). At the time, she was absolutely crazy about me, but I broke it off after a couple years. She was very hurt by this, and she wanted to get back with me for a couple ...

I said I loved him, he responded with I like you, I'm confused?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

2 November 2011 (F) - ok me and mt bf have been goin out for almost a year now he takes care of me he is nice kind genleman gives me wat i want all the time but oneday i asked him how he felt about me. i doubt since he was giving money and paying for my phone bills and ...