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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I need help with my girlfriend She constantly says I'm boring and annoying She hates whenever I talk about stuff she does that make me mad and annoyed because she says that's not manly and that she wants a man. She also says I'm boring when I know I'm not I like to have fun and be adventurous but she says I'm boring. She likes to party and drink and so do I but we never get the chance to do so with each other and she says I'm boring and even the sound of my voice is boring. I don't get why she acts like that she loves making me mad and can never take me seriously when I am pissed off and I don't know how to handle her. I like having fun as much as she does but she says I'm boring and annoying even my presence is annoyingPlease help!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2011): Go to a party and drink without her like you normally would, except be sure to take all kinds of pictures with your friends. Make sure a couple of cute girls are in the pictures as well. Then post them to your facebook and twitter. Once she views the pictures, she will reconsider. Women will change their attitude if they think they are about to lose their man to another woman.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (11 November 2011):
 Hah! I can read between the lines on this one.
Allow me to translate what she's *really* telling you:
She wants to party. You want to settle down and don't find drinking and partying to be all that fun or appealing. She's bashing you because you make her feel defensive about what she wants to do.
The two of you are incompatible, and she is immature.
The problem is, if she's so upset at your presence, why hasn't she broken up with you? Easy. She's hedging her bets until another guy comes along.
I'd cut your losses and find someone else who appreciates you, because you two are in different places in life right now. You're NOT boring. You simply aren't interested in the booze-soaked party scene, and there's nothing wrong with that!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2011): ..Bro she may be either 1)Be gettin bored of you 2)Is gettin new interests for new guys. You should try to make her feel like the time you 2 started going out. Bring those memories back. Do the simple stuff you used to do. You never know it may work.
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