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Archived questions from: November, 2009 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

He wanted to date me, I said no, now I want to say yes he is saying no

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - im starting to feel quite depressed the boy i like told me he likes me too but it 'isnt the right time for a relationship' he used to try to go ou with me all the time but i didnt want to then and now ive realised i do like him after all. its ...

Torn between two lovers, who do I chose

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - Do you love with the one you're with or wait for the one you love? Man 1: I've been dating a guy for 3 years. I love him more than anyone I've ever known before. Whenever I see him, I know I want to spend the rest of my life with him, even after ...

Is this something that happens with military men?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up due to his stress level and the upcoming tour in Afganastain. He said that he loves me unconditionally but doens't know if he is coming back, he is scared and that I should live my life and move on. He told me to gog away ...

He's either sleeping or at work, how do I make him see how neglected I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I'm a military wife, I met my husband in highschool and we've been married for 3 years now. He's working a lot more now so most of the time its just my almost 3 year old daughter and I. The continuous work used to bother me, now I don't care. Part ...

My ex and I are friends, so why does he keep pushing me away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - My ex and I broke up a year ago, but we have remained friends. He keeps telling me that he loves me but that he can't be in a relationship for various reasons. We are not sleeping together, nor have we since we broke up. I'm smart enough n...

After four years I am still in love with my ex girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - Going back 4-5 years ago i had split with my ex and we both went on our own ways. both she and i have had a few different partners and am willing to look past that obviously, its a long time. the hard part here is that ever since we split as i go...

I have nowhere else to go, so I am stuck, how can I get out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I was having trouble, switching to dad's house to mom's house. I didn't know how to get on my own. I was living at mom's place and things went bad.. I was deciding on if I should live with dad again or stay with mom. I met a guy and we connected. ...

My boyfriend is losing interest, what can I do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years now and we are both 17 and we love each other very very much, the only problem is im the loving and caring type and always want affection, when he shows it when he wants to, i mean he is a great ...

How long should I wait, I have given him a week already

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend said he needs time . That he needs to become a better person. We been having problems we been together for almost four years.I texted him after a week of not calling me and he says he loves me and misses me but says staying apart is the ...

How can I keep our love alive...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5499 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - When you're in a long relationship and you think your lover is falling out of love with you, what should you do to make him stay in love with you?...

I feel my love is fading while my boyfriend is away

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I have been in a long distance relationship for 4 years, going to be moving in together in about 6months, which I'm excited about, but sometimes I get nervous about my relationship because my bf seems so certain that I am his future, he sees it ...

I left my run for him too late

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - im a shy girl but, theres this boy and we used to talk for hours on the phone and i felt really comfortable talking to him and then he started saying he really liked me but i didnt want to go out with him because i was scared what people would say. ...

We were doing well until we made it 'official'! How do we get it back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5429 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - Right. Fell for this guy at the begining of last school year when we got sat next to each other in class and our relationship grew and grew and finally, September this year he asked me out. Before we "made it official", we'd kiss and hug and act ...

I had an affair with a womanizer then gave his wife my email and password to show her the proof

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - Hello, This is just a follow up of what I have written earlier. I got involved with a 68 yrs old man thru internet online and he is married. He is a womanizer, but still I loved him and even learned to love his imperfections. Up front I told him...

Suddenly she wants to slow things down. What's going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

28 November 2009 (M) - Please help me, I feel so lost and helpless. Been with my beautiful lady for three years now, discussed wedding and living together etc. Happiest I have ever been in my life. Recently she tells me she cant love me properly, says we should cool...

Things changed for him when we moved in together, he went and I am left holding the bag

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend since February. things were going great. he came to my mums wedding, held my hand when i was in hospital recently and we moved in together 5 weeks ago. he's an only child and has lived away from home before now but i...

I got my man, but now I don't want him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - Im desperated for a man to make me feel better when I divorced my husband 4 years ago. I fancied this man 20 years older than me. He is very supportive throughout my divorce. I am so happy I am in love again. But now I find him less attractive ...

If I say we can't be friends, will he then chase me for more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

28 November 2009 (?) - Okay so my ex and I went out for a year and broke up a year ago. I was the one to leave the relationship and he agreed. I tried to get back with him really hard a couple days after the break up but he didn't want to take me back. He also said he ...

Am I too demanding or am I stuck in a boring relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Hello, I've been in a relationship for almost 2 years. Like with most couples, the first months of it went by smoothly. But lately, I'm starting to feel a bored with my relationship. I go to school full-time so I don't get to see him during th...

My teacher told me he loves me too much to have a relationship with me.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Hi. My teacher told me that he loves me too much to do anything about it. I'm 14 and he is 30. He has taught me for the past 2 years. It started just basic flirting really, he stares and smiles at me, touches my shoulders, hands etc. He asks my ...

Why do things always turn sour once you are married?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - why is it always like this? when a women and a man is on the relationship, no matter how long the relationship goes even its 5 or 10 years long or more they are most of the time always in good term. the sweetness, the cares, the dream, the love, ...

Is he going off me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - i been dating this boy since i was a freshmen in high school, he is now in college and im now a senior. He agreed that we would stay together. The first year of college everything was ok but this year everything went wrong, he would only call me ...

I'm married and my girlfriend let her ex sleep over. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

26 November 2009 (M) - My girlfriend agreed to date me even though she knew I was married. I was honest from day one. You will have to believe me as she did that my wife and I stopped sleeping together 4 years ago. My Girlfriend has a two year old with a man that ...

Our mutual friends tell me my boyfriend is chatting up another girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - hello guys... i m a 20 year old girl...i am in a relationship for last 4 years...this guy was very sweet initially...he proposed me and we spent lovely time together...but recently i dont know what happened, but my bf has stopped calling me and some...

How can I tell if hes hiding something?

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25 November 2009 (F) - Been with my Fella for almost eight months now, im 17 and hes 23. i would say we are very close and can tell eachother anything, we have alot of fun together, had a few ups and downs but nothing major, we always make up the next day! he was the ...

Does X plus naked pics on pc equal no relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend very much. We've been together just over a year and i honestly dont know what id do without him. However, lately he's been less committed than I. He took his ex out for drinks then went back to her place and I found half naked ...

He is being very very rude with me. Does he still care for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5506 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - he behaves rude wid me lyk he doesnt luv me never calls me. his frnds tell me tht he really luvs me a lot n puposely behaving harsh wid me so tht i leave him coz my bf thinks tht we cnt have a future together i dun kno whether to trust him or not. ...

My wife wants me back but I've booked a holiday with my internet lover!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

24 November 2009 (M) - I develop an embarasing problem where i lost all of my head hair. resently my wife and i have drifted away and i was planning to leave her for another beautiful woman that i met online. she is dazling. since my head hair loss things have turned rite ...

Divorcing naked creepy ex... What if he does something?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - I split from my husband 4 years ago after being in a very passionless marriage for 10+years, no kids. I have given him plenty of time to adjust to life without me and now I am filing for divorce. He remains in complete denial. Tonight I dropped by ...

Whats the first step after releasing yourself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - I'v just realised the boy Iv been crushing over and been trying to get over for about 2 years isnt really ALL THAT. So now that I feel Im officially over him, what do I do know? I realise, I focused my life around him. How do I live without him...

To divorce or not divorce...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

23 November 2009 (M) - to divorce or not to divorce?? me and my wife of 4 years have talked about our marriage (we already have a 1 year son) which has been a fine marriage in every think except sex. Throughout the years of our marriage we only had sex about 15-20 time...

My girlfriend dumped me and I'm still devastated

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4566 days ago

23 November 2009 (M) - Im so hurt! My ex gf broke up with me on Nov 4 after dating for almost 2 yrs. I always treated her like a princess and loved her like crazy. I found out on a txt msg she sent me by "accident". It devastated me bcuz even though we had been fighting, ...

I think my best friend (a guy) is my soul mate. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend, don't get me wrong, but I think my male bestfriend is my soulmate. He knows me like no other, and makes me feel happy and safe and beautiful. I don't really know what to do, I'm relatively at peace with it, but thats b...

Have any other men divorced their wives to be with their sister in law?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

22 November 2009 (M) - have men divoced their wives to marry their wife's sister? does this happen or am i the only one that is conteplating this?...

It's been a year. How do I get him out of my mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - I spent an amazing day with a guy that I really liked. He now has a different girlfriend (not me). I went and saw a movie with him a on 11/22/08 a year ago from today. I can't stop thinking of him. He's always on my mind. I've tried moving on but he ...

I love him, but I find him ugly at the same time. What is wrong with me? Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - I have a history with this guy and I've never stop loving him. Its been approximate 2 years that I've loved him none stop even though there's been parts where I've hated him. I went through a period where I couldn't stand him but whatever ...

We ended things amicably, so why is he suddenly rude?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - I dated a guy for 9 months, it was never exclusive. It then ended when he moved to another city for work and we left on good terms without any closure. We kept in contact as friends for the two months since he's left. But since he left, he's been ...

How do I get her to fall back in love with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

22 November 2009 (M) - The woman i grew up with and was to get married to broke up with me years ago. 2 yrs ago we got back in touch and we both admitted we still love each other. But the last 2 yrs all the guys she tried to meet just use her and degrade her. When i asked ...

Unable to deal with the breakdown in my relationship, will he come around? What should I do!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are having problems at the moment . He though he was pulling me down so he dumped me . But we started talking again and we were joking around about old times then i asked him why cant we try again and he said we cant its to late ...

My girlfriend has gone off sex and I don't know why...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

21 November 2009 (M) - Well I've been with my girlfriend just over a year and our our sex life was very good excellent to say the least, I am 36 and my girlfriend is 49 and i love her so dearly but recently she has gone off sex and has lost all interest in making love as ...

He says he wants to be friends only, but he seems to want more

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - I've never done this before, but I always come to this site so I figured I'd try... I met this guy in August. Initially I had my doubts, but I put aside the superficials and really looked at him as a person and began to fall for him. The phys...

I work two jobs to pay for everything while my boyfriend has no time for me!

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21 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has changed so much since ive had 2 jobs. He is always busy and now seems so into himself. I had to get the 2nd job to pay for things. He is always busy if i have a night off, has already made plans and doesnt invite me. We live ...

My girlfriend has become distant, is she using me, or am I worrying over nothing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 November 2009 (M) - My Gf has started being a little distant, she dosen't seem to think so, she has also started saying sex is just the same as it always is when she always used to look forward to it, shes been very hot and cold in attitude towards me. today she said ...

He texts his ex and another girl. Is he losing interest in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i got 2gether a couple of months ago. his girlfriend split up him then he got with me but he constantly keeps texting her and texting this other girl that he constantly talks about. he met up with her, had a couple of drinks a...

Things seem awkward but I think he might like me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5465 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - Hey i wrote up two days ago and thanks to "Another_Kapiti" who wrote back to me but just to give you an update. It was a very long question about this guy that i needed to tell him i really loved him but didnt wanna risk our friendship because ...

He says 'no' but his actions say 'yes'

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - not long ago i told someone i had become very very close friends with that i like him and want a relationship. he said no because he does not need someone like that right now. so i was left wondering what to do. after a bit of a confusing few mont...

Please give me tips on how to not beg my boyfriend to take me back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - [MODERATOR NOTE: Four different posts from the same person have been combined into one.] Iv been in an on/off relationship for 2 years. I recently came to realise that he basically loved the control he had over me. He has no respect, puts me down...

Should we work at this for the sake of our daughter?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my fiancé for eight years. And we just recently had a baby girl five and a half months ago. Things are rocky and are not the same it used to be. Were no longer happy. We rarely speak,have sex, or even show love with a kiss or a hug. ...

My boyfriend left me, but hasn't turned in the key! Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend moved out without warning. He was a horrible communicator. His name is on the lease and he said that he would give me the key when the lease is up. Why keep the key?...

My boyfriend puts alcohol before me and his children!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 7 months is a raging alcoholic and I dont know what to do. I did not know that it was this bad until recently. He is always putting his friends and his drinking before me. The other night he called me and said that he was on his wa...