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Archived questions from: July, 2007 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

Recently split from my husband and now he has plastered semi-nude photos of me on the walls of the house. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I split from my husband about six months ago and moved out of our house, hoping I could figure out why I have fallen out of love with him. I still go home to help him with the monthly finances, and just to see how he's doing, but about a month ...

I am tired of my relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I am tired of my relationship.. I am tired of being the one holding out our relationship together.. I feel so much pressure.. I feel that if I stop trying, we'll eventually split up... It is so much work.. I was expecting a more normal ...

She's pregnant with our baby and is telling me she needs space from me.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6354 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - Hi there, My girlfreind and I have found out that we are expecting a baby, She is approximately 14 weeks gone. However she now tells me she doesn't know how she feels about me, and that she just needs space and time to see if things change. I...

He gets uncontrollable urges to sleep with other women... our sex life is great, is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - Hi, I am so confused. I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years, he is 34, me 35. We moved to China a year ago to work and during this time our relationship has gone downhill. Partly due to the lifestyle, not having enough space from each ...

I'm so lonely and I don't think he loves me anymore

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I wanted to say hello to all on this site..I am a new one here,just found this site...I think I am going enjoy this place... Well anyway, my problem is also like one I read on here and that made me want to join... I have been married for 26...

What do you think? Is it time to end the relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - It seems like my relationship with my boyfriend is reaching its breaking point. We fight over the smallest of things especially when he sees me being insecure, while if it is the other way around I've found I actually talk to him about it and make ...

Will he want a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6355 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - Heyyy I broke up with my bf of 10 months, one month ago because he told me he didnt want to be in a relationship anymore (wanted to spend more time with mates)although he did say he still loved me. The last month has been the hardest of my...

What are some good tips for getting over a malicious relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6355 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - What are some good tips for getting over a malicious relationship? Last year I met a guy who rocked my world, in the sense that we had so much in common, had so much fun together, he was a sweetheart and seemed to share similar opinions and mor...

He's moved on after 3 months of separation from me and said that if I wasn't so abusive he would have come back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6355 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - Please help, i was with my ex for just over a year, we have been broken up 3months I have a 7month old baby by him, but the thing is he has moved on already with someone else, im heart broken has i still love him, i don't no how to handle him ...

He wouldn't use the words "breaking up" or "dumping", but that's pretty much what happened. I'm distraught.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6356 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - Hi all. I'm new here, and in need of some advice. My boyfriend (my ex now, I guess) and I have been together for 10 months. Things were a bit rocky when we first started dating, in that I knew he was very different from anyone I'd dated and I wasn...

I fall for guys really easy and have 2 that like me just now, I just don't know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6356 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - I'm 14 and fall for guys really easy. I have a guy back home wanting to make a go of me and him but I was back in England (in Spain atm) we always hit off, got along and everything but earlier this week I met a guy and he´s eveything I want. He is ...

Do I still love my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6243 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - Im about to turn 18 and start college soon and i have this boyfriend and well i came to realize i dont think i like him anymore. Now this would be easy for me to break up with him but we been togetther for a while and he really loves me and has done ...

Thoughts on Love...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6356 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - 22/07/07 Dear Friends, Today I woke up with an empty sensation that cut through my soul and drained the life out of me. I felt exhausted and drained had to stop and think. What have I done lately for happiness, what have I done just b...

I love her, but I'm not in love. Should I stay, or should I end it with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

27 July 2007 (M) - I've been in a relationship with a very sweet woman for almost 2 years now. It's the same old cliche: I love her but I'm not "in love" with her. I care for her very much, but i've never felt "in love" with her or felt any deep passion for this ...

I still love my ex-boyfriend. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6357 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - About 4 months ago now I broke up with my boyfriend of 7 months because I couldn't deal with the stress going on in his/our lives. He had gotten a girl pregnant before he met me and although I knew about it the whole time, it didn't become real to ...

I really just want things back how they were before, and really miss her, if I'm honest.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6358 days ago

27 July 2007 (M) - I have a bit of a problem, I'd really like your help with. Basically, I've just turned 18, but am quite immature (I suppose) for my age. Anyway, I work with this 15 year old girl, and we got on really well ever since I met her. She liked me (i...

I still have feelings for my husband who I'm seperated from, how can I get over him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6357 days ago

26 July 2007 (F) - hi there i am new to this my question is how do i get over my husband. we have been together for 19 years and have 2 girls. We seperated last september and he has been seeing someone for the past 8-10 weeks. He has caused problems during our ...

I have an undiagnosed mental health problem and my partner says he doesn't love me any more

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6359 days ago

25 July 2007 (F) - Please help, I don't know who to turn to. My partner of 12 years told me a week ago that he no longer loves me and has been feeling this way for months. The reason he gave is that I have been suffering from an undiagnosed mental illness and won't ...

I'm still pining for my ex 2 after 2 years apart

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - hi everyone, my boyfriend broke up with me after 2 and half years. i loved him alot, truly love. He broke up with me on novemeber 27, 2005. and its july 24, 2007....so its almost 2 years we have broke up...but can u believe that i still cry for ...

I've done very well but nothing seems good enough for my wife; she finds fault everywhere. I just want to be happy, what can I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

24 July 2007 (M) - I have been together with the same woman since we were teens (30 years). Wonderful kids, it was a long struggle - but life turned out very well for us and I do help out around the house and look after the kids every change I get. However, we are r...

I want a fresh start for my kids and I, away from their abusive dad but I don't know how to begin

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - I don't know where to turn. I have been married for 24 years and the relationship has had more struggles than joyful times. The problems range from physical and emotional abuse, my eating disorder 10 years ago, my husband having an affair with ...

I don't love my wife anymore but I don't want to put my little girl through a divorce

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

23 July 2007 (M) - I have been married for 10 years and have come to the realization that me and my wife have grown so much in different directions and that i don't love her anymore. i knew some of the things i didn't like at the beginning but had the faith that we ...

My girlfriend is losing interest, how can I make her interested again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6362 days ago

23 July 2007 (M) - my girlfriend seems to be getting bored or fed up of me n da relationship. I'm becoming boring to her. How do I become interesting again? P.S.* i can't meet her or go out wd her, i'l b seeing her after 2 more weeks....

The spark is dwindling, how can I rekindle it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

22 July 2007 (M) - how do you keep your relationship going, when the spark is still in you, but ur partner seems to be gettin bored or fed up of u? I've been in a relationship for 5 months now. It was all amazing for the 1st 3 months... but after that... it all start...

It's all about the sex... no it's about the intimacy... no it really is about the sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

22 July 2007 (M) - After 9 or 10 good girlfriends over as many years, I found one where the sex is fantastic, perfect really, but the relationship was not great. I ended the relationship but I can't get over the sex, it was just too great between us. I'm not the ...

I still like him and care about him but I want to know if he still feels the same way about me even though he aint calling me or textin me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6362 days ago

22 July 2007 (F) - I was talking to this guy who used to date one of my ex friend's but she stopped talking to me so me and him, we were friends for a long time. He just stopped talking to me right in the middle of this month. I still like him and care about him but ...

How do i get him out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6362 days ago

21 July 2007 (?) - Me and my partner of just over 2 yrs have been on and off for so long that i cant recall how many times we have split. I did have a problem with alchol but after the last time he left (6 weeks ago), i decided to knock the drink on the head whic...

How can I convince him it's over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

21 July 2007 (F) - Hi. I need some help in convincing my partner, (should be ex-partner by now) that our relationship is over. We were together just over 4 years and we split up last November. We decided to get back together early January but split again in the...

He says 'he loves me but...he's not in love with me". How do I cope?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

20 July 2007 (F) - I have been with this guy for just over a year now. We were best friends before we statred dating. He really took care of me and made me feel more loved than ever before. He was changing his entire life in order to better himself and make himself ...

He said he needed to clear his head, and now I havent heard from him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

19 July 2007 (F) - i was seeing a guy. he acted like he realy liked me. everything was going real good. one day i was with him, and the next day he called and said he needed to clear his head . i havnt heard from him and i was wondering if he will call again or if i ...

I still play around with my ex, but he says he used me and now is going out with my mate

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

19 July 2007 (F) - Im 14, I need help. Theres a boy in my school who I love and have been out with(as in girlfriend+boyfriend)in the past and after that we have done things together since we split up and thats has been on and off for the past 2 years. (we havn't had ...

His family moved away and he's depressed, he's put on weight and seems distant; I'm losing patience with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

19 July 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend proposed to me a month ago and since then, our relationship has gone down-hill. It started end of last yr when he found out his mother wanted to migrate to live with someone she fell in love with overseas and wanted t...

I have been married for 16 1/2 years and I have a 15 year old son. I want out of my relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

18 July 2007 (F) - I have been married for 16 1/2 years and I have a 15 year old son. I want out of my relationship. The problem is: I have no place to go as my family lives in Georgia. The cost of living here is outrageous. Me being a woman I have to have 2 good p...

Me and my ex boyfriend broke up about 6 months ago because he wanted to see what else was out there, but he said he still loved me very much... now he has a girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

18 July 2007 (F) - Me and my ex boyfriend broke up about 6 months ago because he wanted to see what else was out there, but he said he still loved me very much and for me to give him the time he needs. Well I have tried to but I have sent him so many emails until we ...

I don't know whether I still want to be with him... we're just so different, he stresses out and shouts at me quite a lot, then makes it out like he's hard done by, which makes me feel guilty.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6366 days ago

18 July 2007 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 8 months, but I don't know whether I still want to be with him... we're just so different, he stresses out and shouts at me quite a lot, then makes it out like he's hard done by, which makes me feel guilty. H...

Should I stay or walk away for good? Because of him, I have become a misserable, lonely, and pathetic nobody.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

18 July 2007 (F) - Should I Stay or Walk Away for Good? I have been in tthe best loving happy relationship you could imagine for 8yrs then the next 2 have been difficult due to financial problems. This last year hs been the worst year of my life and ive been tre...

He says he is ok with me wanting to with him or someone else. He doesnt care either way!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6367 days ago

17 July 2007 (F) - I just got back with my boyfriend of two years after a month and a half break-up. Now he says that he learned that he doesn't own me so that's why he doesn't care if I was with someone else because I can do whatever I want. He says that if I want to ...

Do I take it she’s just not interested and move on; as if she was she would have been in touch right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

17 July 2007 (M) - Hey! Thanks for reading this, hope you can give me some advice. Ok so I posted recently how I was having trouble with my ex, she dumped me claiming she didn’t have time for a relationship, but then a few weeks later made it obvious she want...

I feel like my husband hates me. When I walk into the room disgust comes over his face.

This question has 43 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

17 July 2007 (F) - I feel like my husband hates me. When I walk into the room disgust comes over his face. We have been struggling financially because I was in nursing school. Since graduating I am working 2 jobs, raising 3 kids, running the paperwork end of a ...

I keep dreaming that my ex husband is being emotionally cruel to me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6367 days ago

17 July 2007 (F) - My ex husband was very emotionally cruel and sometimes physically. I was with him for a long time and have been seperated from him for 3 months and not seen him at all in this time. I am determined never to go back this time but the thing now is ...

My wife wants to leave. How do I save our marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6226 days ago

16 July 2007 (M) - i have been with my wife for nearly 20 years, she tells me her feelings aren't the same for me anymore. she has lost alot of weight in the past six months,she seems so confused, i have told her to see a doctor but she wont, now she wants to leave ...

I think my girlfriend thinks of me as more of a friend rather than a boyfriend! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6368 days ago

16 July 2007 (M) - I have been going out with my girlfriend for more than one year.I really love her very much but something is happening to our relationship that i cannot explain.We have stayed together for the past six months.She gave me some very bad news that she ...

She said it's not me, it's her. How can someone's feelings just suddenly stop??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6367 days ago

16 July 2007 (M) - I've been in love with this girl for nearly a year and we've been through a lot of ups and downs. She said that she was in love with me, then suddenly she's saying she dosent even fancy me anymore. She says it's not me but she's changed. I just don...

I am not sure we love each other any more

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6368 days ago

16 July 2007 (M) - This is kinda lengthy, as its a rather complicated situation. Ok, so my gf and I have been together for 2 years now, and lately things have just been falling apart. She is anorexic and is extremely abusive (mostly verbally, but she also hits me, ...

She dumped me for someone else then calls me to say she wants to get back with me, next day I see her withher EX!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6211 days ago

14 July 2007 (M) - Ok so my girlfriend is 24, I'm 16, we were going out for about three weeks and this one night she says I'm going to the club and I have a funny feeling about it, so I wait and I wasn't even looking out a window or nothing there goes her ex boy ...

I like him but I don't love him and I don't want to hurt him.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

14 July 2007 (?) - dear cupids I really don't know what to do you see my boyfriend is madly in love with me and he tells me all the time he loves me and he wants to be with me forever and he will not make me do anything I don't want EVER! and he always hugs me and h...

I'm madly in love with my ex, he was my 1st love.. but I don't think he even thinks of me anymore...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6370 days ago

14 July 2007 (F) - I'm madly in love with my ex, he was my 1st love.. but I don't think he even thinks of me anymore... I miss him so much. I know I should move on with life, but its so difficult. What should I do? Please please help me.. thnx...

How can I put the spark back into our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6369 days ago

14 July 2007 (M) - What do should I do? I'm in a relationship where my fiance is very faithful but we haven't had sex in 4 months and she said it's due to her depression that she said is on her own? She is now taking anit-depressants but I want to bring the spark ...

My girlfriend broke up with me three weeks ago under the pretence that she just couldn't be in a relationship at the moment as it was too much pressure...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

14 July 2007 (M) - My girlfriend broke up with me three weeks ago under the pretence that she just couldn't be in a relationship at the moment as it was too much pressure and she was feeling mentally screwed up in a way that prevented her doing so. We argued about it ...

I feel like he has crushed my dreams and it is so hard to get over.. any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6370 days ago

14 July 2007 (F) - Okay it has been 6 weeks since we have been on a "break" we have seen each other three times and just had dinner this past Monday night and had a great time, I did not bring up the relationship at all.. I am still so depressed. I just can't live ...