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writes:What do should I do? I'm in a relationship where my fiance is very faithful but we haven't had sex in 4 months and she said it's due to her depression that she said is on her own? She is now taking anit-depressants but I want to bring the spark back in our relatioinship. How do I do so?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2007): a woman likes to experience the simple but essential little things that make a woman feel wanted, loved and in return she will do the same. Hold her hand, send her little love notes, for no reason at all walk up to her and kiss her, take notice in things she does, cook her a meal (even if it is bake beans on toast) and create an romantic atmoshpher, picnic on the lounge floor, candle light, soft music. little thing like this cost nothing but means the world. Make a woman feel loved and wanted and she will give you her complete self.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2007): Dealing with people that have depression can be very tricky, my dad has had it for the past four years and his mood swings make it very difficult to reach him. I think you should ask her what she wants, to try new things? to be wined and dined? tell her you want to get closer to her again and ask her if thats what she wants too. That way, she can suggest things that she would like and that makes it easier for you to get it right. i think the best way to go about this is to follow instruction from her because of her depression. maybe she wants more attention? maybe she wants less? if she says she wants to work on putting the spark back too but doesnt know how then why don't you surprise her? buy her some new sexy underwear (that she will feel comfortable about wearing) or maybe take her away for a little mini break somewhere? a romantic weekend away could be just what you need. be attentive and understanding and if she wants what you want then it will fix itself in time :) xxx
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (14 July 2007):
 Cook her a romantic dinner, just the two of you with candles and music and take things from there. If you can't cook get a romantic take out. Don't just pounce on her though. Gently initiate sex and see if she goes for it.
I'm pregnant at the moment and am never in the mood as I never had any energy in the earlier months of my pregnancy. I think I now have just got in a habit of not being in the mood if that makes any sense.
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reader, justice_123 +, writes (14 July 2007):
take her out and show her romance and then talk to her and have conversations actual conversations not about sex just talk bout whats going on with her and let he rknow you care clean up and let her know she doesnt have to do all the work!
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