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female
age
41-50,
*nxiety
writes:Okay it has been 6 weeks since we have been on a "break" we have seen each other three times and just had dinner this past Monday night and had a great time, I did not bring up the relationship at all.. I am still so depressed. I just can't live like this. I am taking classes right now and working out like a manic and that is helping me get him out of my head but it is hard. So is that after so long you question it.. My best friend tells me to give him the 3 months he wants and I kind of want to and sort of don't.. This is about me too. I need some advice on what to do. I am starting to realize that I think it is over, I do not want to hang on to something that is not there. He really does not like to get into deep discussions any more and I do not think that is fair to me, I love to talk and he does not but damn this is my life too.. I feel like he has crushed my dreams and it is so hard to get over.. any suggestions?
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reader, DJ8433 +, writes (14 July 2007):
 You're not happy, this is apparent. It sounds like he has moved on from an exclusive relationship with you to a friends with benefits relationship with you. If he's not devoted to you then I would suggest not being devoted to him. If you're not exclusive than he doesn't need to know that you are "seeing others". If you are or were in love with him, then you're friends are probably right, and you might need some time to get your heart right. When you are ready, have some fun dating, but don't jump into another relationship, give yourself some time to recover. It's a woman's world. What do you want?
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