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Archived questions from: May, 2017 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Should I worry about the attention he gives her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2754 days ago

31 May 2017 (F) - I've been seeing a guy for about two months now. Everything has been going great. He's affectionate, caring, etc. We've dated before a few years ago and it didn't work out. He had cheated on me with a very permiscuous chick who has a reputation for ...

He asked my friend and now me. Is it OK?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2765 days ago

31 May 2017 (F) - Hello, Please I need some advice. There is this guy asking me out. We met at my sister's wedding. I like him too. It turned out that he had asked my best friend out some months back but she said she was not interested. I asked my friend about ...

I can't stop stalking my ex on social media and I can't get over the way that he dumped me mercilessly

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2768 days ago

30 May 2017 (F) - I can't get over my ex and stalking him on social media; this is pathetic and I don't talk about it beside my therapists that doesn't approve my actions but here it is and I am hoping that someone might have some advice - my relationship with my ex ...

I'm falling in love with a married woman who's in a bad marriage but will she ever leave her husband?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2762 days ago

30 May 2017 (M) - I recently moved to a new location about 6 months ago, I started going to bar to hang out. I started talked to the a Server while I was the bar and every time I go in she always made a point to go say hi. Now she was cute, so I went more often th...

My mother says it will ruin my reputation if I am with this guy

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2759 days ago

30 May 2017 (F) - Me and this black have been talking and i told my mama about it and she doesn't approve. she mad me feel horrible about the whole situation and I told him that we were gonna have to be friends. I dont know what to do because i dont see what the big ...

I am not getting enough quality time with my boyfriend.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2768 days ago

30 May 2017 (F) - For those of you in a long-term relationship, how much time do you spend with your significant other? Lately I've been feeling frustrated with the amount of time my boyfriend and I spend together. We've been dating for five years and don't live t...

Why didn't he tell his friends he had broken up with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2768 days ago

29 May 2017 (F) - The man I had been seeing for 14 months and I had an argument....almost. I asked him how he felt about me because I needed to know in order to decide where to take my life. Eight months ago he was gung ho about "US" and then he turned cold. He told ...

Who am I? I want to be bisexual as I think I like girls more than boys now. Hardly anyone I know is bisexual

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2755 days ago

29 May 2017 (F) - I have been out with loads of boys but I kissed a girl and I think I like girls now. I want to be bisexual, but don't know what people would think and well it's harder to get a good relationship because hardly anyone I know is bisexual or gay. W...

How do I determine if this relationship will ever turn serious or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2769 days ago

29 May 2017 (F) - I have been in an awkward type of relationship with a man that is 14 years my senior . I Have known my Partner for 13 years now and we have an oops baby that we both love to bits and pieces. we started out as a one night stand that became a fr...

I feel massive resentment towards my boyfriend because everything works out for him but never for me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2769 days ago

29 May 2017 (F) - I don't really know how to word this but I have massive resentment towards my boyfriend because everything just works out for him, I don't want to be jealous or annoyed but I am. A few things I can think of are that I applied to go on an aid trip to ...

The guy I'm dating doesn't want kids but I do

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2767 days ago

29 May 2017 (F) - I am dating a guy I am 35 he is 46 he says that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me and would marry me tomorrow if I wanted it. We have loads in common hobby wise, we have similar political and religious stances. However I really...

My boyfriend is lying about porn again. what are my options?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2767 days ago

29 May 2017 (F) - Hi i've been in a relationship with my partner for a few years, the beginning was perfect great sex almost every day. He would always please me go down on me and stuff, compliments all the time he made me feel sexy and confident. we even watched...

Why do men show an interest in me and suddenly change?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2769 days ago

28 May 2017 (M) - I am a gay man. I stopped dating for a year as I was just tired of being heartbroken. I started again a couple weeks ago, I met a guy who seemed so nice. He was everything I wanted in a guy, I honestly couldn't believe it. He was constantly ...

I got drunk and made out with a guy but lied to the guy I like about it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2769 days ago

28 May 2017 (F) - Okay so I really screwed up! My cousin set me up with one of her best friends (let's call him Steve) We went paintballing with my cousin and he's a really great guy. He got my number and asked me to go with him to his matric dance (which I said yes ...

Should I date him when he had asked out my best friend and she turned him down?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2768 days ago

28 May 2017 (F) - Hello, Please I need some advice. There is this guy asking me out. We met at my sister's wedding. I like him too. It turned out that he had asked my best friend out some months back but she said she was not interested. I asked my friend about ...

I don't want both of us to be broken after we are dating

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2770 days ago

28 May 2017 (F) - Im that type of girl who seeks relationships that has deep connection and not just a plain relationship. So i know this guy for two years, and he's madly in love with me, at first i was really trying to avoid him because i wasn't interested in him ...

I thought we'd made plans but she hasn't texted back!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2770 days ago

27 May 2017 (M) - Hey all! Need some advice here please. Earlier in the week a girl said I was amazing and that we should hang out this weekend. I texted her yesterday asking if the plans were still good and she said heck ya so I replied sweet that's what I like to ...

I have literally no interest in pursuing girls anymore, is this normal?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 2767 days ago

27 May 2017 (M) - Hi all, I have a situation where I can't decide whether it's normal or not. Basically, I have literally no interest in pursuing girls anymore. I'm 25 years old, never had a GF, my sexual experiences are one night stands or brief flings and...

He has ED, should I stay with him?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2710 days ago

26 May 2017 (F) - I am planning to settle down with this guy as I really want kids (I've wanted them for years) and I'd like someone to help bring them up. I've been dating for a few months and found out that he has erectile dysfunction. I am not in love with him...

Do I ask out the bus driver? I'm worried he thinks I'm a kid

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2770 days ago

26 May 2017 (F) - I like my city bus driver...and I want to ask him out, but I think he may think im a kid...im 30, but people tend to think im 16-17..i HATE it.i get hit on a lot but I am very skeptical of men...I watch the news and read the paper way too ...

I fell in love with a part-time escort and not sure what to do now

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2770 days ago

26 May 2017 (M) - Long read, please be patient. I am a working professional in my early 30’s and I've been living and working in Southeast Asia for the past 10 years. I live and work in a rather remote and industrial area and thus I've always found it diffic...

Does she like me romantically or just see me as a friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2770 days ago

25 May 2017 (M) - Not entirely sure with this, I'd like to think she likes me but I really struggle to tell the difference between what counts as friendship or relationship material. Basically put I met up with this girl who I got talking to online and I met up wit...

My daughter feels I am being inconsiderate having my lover stay over

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2770 days ago

25 May 2017 (?) - hi all, I have been on my own with my daughter since she was 6 months old and in that time i have never introduced her to any potential partners, i have chosen to stay single. my daughter is 18 years old next month and also has a boyfriend of nearly ...

Does his invite mean he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2770 days ago

25 May 2017 (F) - There is a guy I'm interested in and he has a son who is turning 3 this weekend. He recently invited me to go to a birthday lunch for his son with him and his family. We are friends from church, but he is not inviting any other of his friends from ...

26 and never been on a date

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2770 days ago

25 May 2017 (F) - Long story short, I am 26 and have never been on a date, in a relatiobship, or even kissed. I am a little shy, buy very easy going. I talk to guys at work and they are cool, but I feel like I am just friendzone for anyone. It makes me feel like ...

How do I deal with this? I'm hurt that a second man is asking about who is the prettiest of my friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2775 days ago

25 May 2017 (F) - Hi all, So I dated this guy for a short while who really messed it up for me. He has a narsissistic personality disorder and well I bore the brunt of of it. One thing in particular which he did and I found very insulting was- he wouldn't stop ta...

I know my friend's boyfriend is cheating on her but my boyfriend says I can't tell her

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2758 days ago

24 May 2017 (F) - Hi; I have a boyfriend who I love dearly and me and him are good friends with another couple who we go out with and see a lot. I am very good friends with the girl of the couple and he is very good friends with the boy of the couple although...

How do I play it on the 2nd date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2775 days ago

24 May 2017 (M) - Hey guys, I'll try and keep this short and sweet, basically I met a girl on a dating site, after a few days of messaging, we went out on a date the other night. She said beforehand how shy/ nervous she is, anyway, we went on the date, and it went ...

I cheated and had a one night stand!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2588 days ago

24 May 2017 (M) - Hi, I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years. She honestly is the love of my life and I am very happy with her and would do anything for her. Unfortunately, I made a terrible mistake a couple of nights ago , had way too many drinks (which I know ...

He said he needed time away from me but still texts every day.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2774 days ago

23 May 2017 (F) - So my boyfriend of a year and a half told me last week out of the blue that he needs time away from me. At first I thought he was joking and I said are you casually trying to break up with me and he said no that he stressed and that I've been mean ...

I am troubled and feel so down.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2767 days ago

23 May 2017 (F) - Just looking for advice. I'm 33 and separated from my husband due to domestic violence we separated in December having only been married 3 months. I wasn't happy for a long time and only married as we have 2 kids one is 2 1/2 and the other is 15 ...

Do I date him or not? My mother says NO to dating him. My friend says Yes, or she'll not be my friend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2774 days ago

23 May 2017 (F) - So this guy likes me and i sorta like him back but people tell him not to date him but my best friend says if i dont she wont be my friend and people that said no because they wont let me date him and my mum says i should say no what should i do?...

Despite out 6 year age difference, do you think this relationship could work out well for us ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2775 days ago

23 May 2017 (M) - Hello. I'd like to get some advice, as I've never been in a similar situation before. I've met a really good, caring and beautiful girl, and in short, we talked a bit, she told me she liked me since the last year, and later on, we kissed a few ...

Was he drunk or did he experience memory loss?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2775 days ago

22 May 2017 (?) - hi, i am 43 years old and been on my own for 17.5 years, my ex left me when my daughter was five months old and i have remained single. i have met someone i really like and we have seen each other a few times. last night he came to see me and sa...

He says he wants a child and gets upset when I give my reasons for why it doesn't work for me now!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2762 days ago

21 May 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 months now and he just brought up wanting a baby with me. I've had an abortion in a past relationship. We are both still in college and as much as I want a kid I just don't see it as a good time to have one ...

I want to show him the fun me! Do I ask him for a second date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2777 days ago

21 May 2017 (F) - I recently stumbled across an old friend and he admitted he liked me 20 yrs ago as i did him . He thought i wasnt interested in him and he was a bit shy so thought i didnt like him that way but i did i fancied the pants off him. im the first to ...

What do her words mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2777 days ago

20 May 2017 (M) - hello, I've been seeing this girl now for 6 months, but out of no where, she been acting moody and distant with me lately and I don't know why. So I confronted her about it and ask if I was us and she said yes. she went on to say "I don't know h...

Can a relationship work when you love their personality but aren't attracted to them sexually?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2777 days ago

20 May 2017 (F) - I talked to a guy for a long time via text before actually meeting him. I loved talking to him and we share the same humour. Upon meeting him I continue to love his personality but I am not physically attracted to him. Can a relationship ever work ...

Have you been asked out by someone that you consider a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2777 days ago

20 May 2017 (M) - Hello Aunts, I've got this female friend in whom I have been romantically interested in. It's been almost a year since we first met and didn't make a move because I'm a nervous idiot. I feel confident enough to ask her now but I'm afraid I'll lose...

He didn't invite me to a family function. Should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2777 days ago

19 May 2017 (F) - Hey, Thanks for taking the time to read my post I'm going to keep it short I've been with my partner 10 years I'm 27 hes 28 we've had a very happy time together no real drama or anything we have always been great together I cant imagine anyone in...

Do we have a hope of making this work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2778 days ago

18 May 2017 (F) - Hello. I've been speaking to this guy since February but only been dating him since April. He lives 2 hours away from me but I went to uni' close to him. I have finished uni' now. We spent a lot of time together in the month that we da...

Boyfriend's emotion letter to ex for closure has left me feeling second best

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2779 days ago

18 May 2017 (F) - I'm in a confused relationship, my boyfriend of 3 years (were living together) send a closure to his ex-gf behind my back. She cheated on him with another guy 5 years before we got together. He already told me that he dated one girl after her before ...

My boyfriend is grounded and I feel its my fault.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2780 days ago

18 May 2017 (F) - My boyfriend has college review classes and is not allowed to go out after classes. But the other day, he broke the rules and went out to have lunch with me. When we were almost done with our lunch, his dad called him and got mad at him because his ...

Boyfriend created fake marriage documents with his ex so that she could have residency in the US. Do I tell him I know? What do I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2781 days ago

17 May 2017 (F) - I live with my boyfriend of a year. We moved in together 2 months ago and everything has been wonderful from the start of our relationship. Today I finally unpacked our last box. I opened a notebook I didn't recognize and it was a journal he wrote ...

My boyfriend is planning to propose! Should I tell my difficult parents now or after the engagement?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2781 days ago

17 May 2017 (F) - My boyfriend is not a secret keeper at all. For a while now we have been talking about marriage. For us, it is just the next natural step to take in our relationship. I cannot imagine it going any other way, love him dearly, and see the same from ...

He is too close to his ex' and it bothers me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2783 days ago

16 May 2017 (F) - I have recently started dating someone at work (discreetly) and it has been going really well. I was very wary of him at first because he has an ex' in the same workplace who he is still close to. He also led me to believe that he liked me before (a ...

He's a nice guy but it's just not working out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2782 days ago

16 May 2017 (F) - Why do I always feel so down? I have been with my boyfriend for five years and we have had several ups and downs. I can't seem to look past his flaws and at times he can't see past mine but we tried hard enough for so long.bThis has been my first ...

My female friends keep hitting on my boyfriend. What do we do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2782 days ago

15 May 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I, both 26, have been together one year. We met through a social group meetup. We are the youngest among our large group of friends as everyone else is in their 30s. We have been with the group for 1.5 years. We are both social ...

Is my ex a manipulator?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2780 days ago

14 May 2017 (M) - Hi All, I would like some advice on a person I stopped seeing recently and whether she sounds like a manipulator or I am thinking too much into things. We split up after about 18 months and we went no contact, I was doing fine and then she deci...

Jealous of my girlfriend's sexual experiences

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2783 days ago

14 May 2017 (M) - I feel a bit silly really. I've been in a great relationship with a woman for several years now. She's fun, kind, understanding, we share a lot of common activities like music, cycling, swimming, travel, and she has really helped me develop - and ...