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female
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30-35,
*halley
writes:Hello, Please I need some advice. There is this guy asking me out. We met at my sister's wedding. I like him too. It turned out that he had asked my best friend out some months back but she said she was not interested. I asked my friend about him and she said they never dated and they were only friends. Yesterday he told me that my bestfriend called him up about 11pm and he was surprised because they haven't been calling each other for sometime. I felt uncomfortable with that. My question is whether it is right to go on and date this guy? What could be a disadvantage of dating him since he already asked my best friend out. My question is whether it is right to go on and date this guy? What could be a disadvantage of dating him since he already asked my best friend out. Thank you.
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reader, judgedick  +, writes (4 June 2017):
 when you find out what was behind the idea of your friend calling him you will know if she is a friend or not. If you like this guy go on 1 date if you wish to go on other dates with him after that do as you wish. There is nothing stopping you , you are not dating your friend and she is not dating him so why not ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2017): Maybe you should speak to your best friend and ask her why she called this guy when she knew he was interested in you and she had previously turned him down.
Perhaps it was to congratulate him on picking the woman who is interested in him.
If you met at a wedding and were both single I see no reason why you cant go ahead and date.
It seems a bit controlling that your best friend is sticking her oar in now.
I can see that most people think this guy is out of bounds to you but I think that maybe the best friend doesnt want to see you hitched to him because she would loose her hunting partner.
If you want to date him then go ahead as they are not dating and have never been dating.
So I personally think it is Ok and she cannot stop you if you want to take it further!
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reader, Youcannotbeserious  +, writes (1 June 2017):
 You have already asked this question and got responses. Were none of them what you wanted? Are you looking for a different response that matches with what you actually think?
If you have already asked and had responses, YOU need to make a decision. What is stopping you from deciding? This guy is not going to wait for ever. Dither long enough and he will be making the decision for you.
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