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Archived questions from: January, 2014 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

He seemed genuine in his texts but when we met up he only wanted one thing!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3952 days ago

31 January 2014 (F) - Hello, so confused. I've been talking to this guy for about a week, the conversation was going good andhe kept asking if we could meet up normally I dont meet them straight away I l like to talk to them for a couple of weeks first. However he seeme...

Boyfriend traveling abroad is posting on Facebook but hasn't called me like he promised!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3158 days ago

31 January 2014 (F) - Hi everyone. I am writing for help because I have never been so confused in my life. I have been in a relationship with a lovely man for just over a year and we have both said how happy we are together, we get on perfectly, do great things to...

How do I flirt with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3952 days ago

31 January 2014 (F) - There's a guy I am interested who works at a pizza place I go to now and then that I'm interested in. He is young probably near my age (19). I am quiet and don't usually flirt so I don't know how to put myself out there. How do I go about flirting ...

Is the guy I'm dating a sex addict?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3951 days ago

31 January 2014 (F) - I am concerned that the guy I met online and I am currently dating is possibly a sex addict! I've ignored some obscenities and red flags but now I am confused!!! I like him very much but I can't help but to be concerned with his preoccupation with ...

Is he really interested or just after a booty call?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3951 days ago

31 January 2014 (F) - Hey there, So basically I was at a huge law firm lecture and an ex pupil of my university was there, I've never met him before but he came straight over, introduced himself and started to chat. When we went into the lecture he said to his friend I...

Found old love letters in my partner's sex drawer.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3953 days ago

31 January 2014 (F) - This morning I discovered old love letters from my partner's ex-girlfriend from over two years ago-- they dated for about 6 months. I don't care about him still having them-- we all keep mementos from the past-- but I discovered them in the "sex ...

Can't support my boyfriend through his illness because too many others want to visit him as well!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3948 days ago

31 January 2014 (F) - I think more than advice I need to put my thoughts into words. My boyfriend was about to commit suicide three weeks ago. He lives with some friends, and as someone is always in the house his friend was with him, noticed he wasn't doing well, and ...

Am I being paranoid about my boyfriend adding a woman on Facebook?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3953 days ago

31 January 2014 (F) - I'm so upset. I noticed that my boyfriend has added a woman on his Facebook page. She lives in another country. There are photos on there of her dressed in revealing clothes. The clothes aren't revealing on all the photos, but she is dressed up on ...

I'm being judged by my fathers past and his reputation, and men are afraid to approach me. How do I cope with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3953 days ago

31 January 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm not being conceited but I'm only mentioning this so that u get a better idea to what my problem is I'm 24 and I should say I'm just not an average looking girl, I get a lot of compliments from both men and women! I got a lot of off...

Having doubts about starting a relationship with this woman. Am I being too sensitive?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3853 days ago

31 January 2014 (F) - Hello, I have recently met a girl who is very keen on having a relationship with me, it has only been 2 months since we met and I want us to take our time to get to know one another better. She doesn't want to wait and keeps on rushing me. Afte...

How can I live in a new relationship without being haunted by my past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3953 days ago

31 January 2014 (F) - Hi there :) So, this is the problem: in July my (ex) bf broke up with me, after seven months of relationship. He was my first time, and I really loved him, even though we weren't good with each other. After the break up, I was lonely for a lon...

Girlfriend keeps pressuring me to perform oral and I hate it.

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3947 days ago

31 January 2014 (M) - I don't know how to say all this without coming out like an asshole but please hear me out. My girlfriend keeps pressuring me to go down on her because she goes down on me but I really don't want to. I've tried it before with several girls ...

Am I overthinking his comment?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3953 days ago

31 January 2014 (F) - This is the dumbest thing I've ever asked.. But I'm not sure if I should be insulted or think it's sweet... My boyfriend said to me: you may not be perfect but you're perfect for me... I instantly thought "aw how sweet", but should I be insu...

Why did he start playing games? How should I respond?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3953 days ago

31 January 2014 (F) - I met this guy on tinder and we started talking and hit it off right away... turns out we have tons of mutual friends. He was nothing but reliable and up for texting for hours. I found it nice that he even called me as most guys just text these ...

My boyfriend is circumcised and takes too long to orgasm. Sex hurts me. What can we do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3951 days ago

30 January 2014 (F) - 6 months of horrible sex. I am dating a men that is (''cut'') he is the first one I have dated. It is like his penis is desensitise, he thrusts and pounds during sex as if my vagina was made of steel, he takes very long to orgasm and I get sore a...

How has the new guy I've been dating made me get over my ex so suddenly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3953 days ago

30 January 2014 (F) - I have a question that confuses me to the point that I don't know what's going on! Basically, I dated this guy last year and I loved him I've never had that strong feelings for anybody else before, but it ended just before summer and it was an awful ...

How young is too young when it comes to settling down and having children?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3949 days ago

30 January 2014 (F) - Hello helpers! This is a relatively quick question, but one that i'd love some input for! I'm 18 years old, turning 19 this year. I'd say I was pretty mature for my age (alot of this coming from bad experiences in childhood). I'm currently dating...

How do I start dating again after being hurt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3953 days ago

30 January 2014 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles. I seem to have an issue with letting myself like men. Every time I have ever let myself feel something I end up getting hurt, and its gotten to the point where my defences are so far up that I think I may come across as uncari...

I'm not so interested in sex and I'm afraid my boyfriends desires will lead him to cheat

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3953 days ago

30 January 2014 (F) - Hiya aunts and uncles, my fiancé of 4 months and dating for 3 years has been talking in his sleep and has expressed the same concerns in his waking hours. He is 26 and im 23 on valentines day. well, its like this: he doesn't feel like we are inti...

10 days and I haven't heard from him. Will I hear from him again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

30 January 2014 (F) - So I started talking to this guy on an app called Tinder and he was super cute and sweet and we talked for about 2 weeks and were talking about maybe dating and how much we liked each other already without even meeting. And then we went on two dates ...

I think my mom is jealous of my girlfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3953 days ago

30 January 2014 (M) - Hi everyone, basically this isn't a big issue, mainly minor but I wanted to ask if anyone had an idea of how to stop it. I've been with my Girlfriend for over a year now and we are both completely in love, since I've been at university, we've just ...

I want to just spend time with my boyfriend and not do other things. I know this isn't healthy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - So I'm in a relatively new relationship. Met him in May, began dating in August and have officially been in a relationship since November. Here's the thing I completely adore him! I was with my ex for 6 years and during the majority of that ...

Things aren't the way they used to be with my boyfriend. Should I worry?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 8 months. When him and I first met and first got into a relationship, things were great. He made a lot of effort to talk with me and to hang out, we spent a lot of time together, and he just seemed ...

My girlfriend's parents despise me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

29 January 2014 (M) - I've been with my current girlfriend for almost 3 years now. I know this is the girl I want to marry, but I'm also big on family, and her's has been giving me the cold shoulder. For some background: her family just consists of her, her parents and ...

I don't want to risk my feelings until I figure out his game

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3955 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - Hi everyone. My situation is as follows... I have liked this guy for a while and I think it's the first time I've really really liked someone. During this time we have always been flirty, but he got into a relationship about 2 months ago ...

Facebook is causing problems in my relationship, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - Through out the years, I have had a lot of bad experiences with Facebook so I deleted mine a long time ago. My boyfriend has been using his again lately. The reason this upsets me is because he has been talking to some of his female friends on ...

Confused about my boyfriend's intentions...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - I have a boyfriend, our relationship started before 5 months, I never new him, we met on the whatsapp. He proposed me within 6 days, without any meeting, now we just met at once in 5 months and had sex 1 time. Till now he didn't proposed for marriage...

In love with a woman who's in a relationship and it's driving me crazy. I don't know what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3952 days ago

29 January 2014 (M) - Hello to all, I have a problem and I could need some advice. Can't talk with anyone around me about this problem.... Eight months ago I added an old classmate on Facebook. We started chatting on Facebook. She is in a relationship (7 years). ...

If he loves me why can't he say the words? Should I talk to him about this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 months. He's absolutely wonderful and we spend as much time as possible together. I sleep over 4-5 times a week. Pretty much been playing house. Clean house, home cooked meals etc. but besides that we genuinely ...

I know I'm just being jealous and my friend is just having fun but I feel like I'm being cheated

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - Last night my friend and I went out on the town, I dressed up, put on a nice dress, did my makeup properly and for once made an effort. My friend came out in jeans and a t-shirt. She's put her boyfriend back in the dating zone (he still loves ...

How do I ask her out and what should I wear on the first date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

29 January 2014 (M) - This us a very short question. Okay I have been seen this girl for 1 month now he haven't met yet we speak everyday non stop, she's great a lovely caring girl I like her a lot, I am going to ask her out in person when we meet. What do I wear and how ...

How normal is anxiety in relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3953 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - I'm worried that my anxiety isn't the 'normal' everyday anxiety. This is because when it comes to relationships, I freak very easily, for example, I've seen this guy twice so far and tonight he wants to go out again. I'm currently feeling very sic...

We're not together anymore but we still act like a couple and have sex... it's starting to get to me. Advice please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - Last month my boyfriend decided that we "take a break" (or in other words: break up) and we've been together for maybe more than three years, but we've known each other much longer than that because we originally were best friends. Him and I have b...

How can I overcome my shyness so I can start initiating contact with women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

29 January 2014 (M) - Hi, a bit of a lengthy question here. So I am a 22 year old male with 1 year left of college and I have never dated or even kissed a girl. I hadn't really started to think about this until recently, after seeing a number of my friends getting into ...

How much value should I put on something my boyfriend said in his sleep?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - My boyfriend was mumbling in his sleep the other night and he said: "no I don't want to get engaged!" Now I know I'm probably being silly but do you think that's how he actually feels? Wish fulfilment and all that. He has expressed that w...

Should people in a relationship discuss their sexual past? I'm uncomfortable hearing about boyfriend's past.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

29 January 2014 (?) - Hi everyone, I had a question and I hope you can answer. If you are in a relationship with someone, is it alright to ask about their sexual past? My boyfriend was telling me about the women he has been with and it made me a little uneasy. H...

Dating a man for 2 months - should I ask him if we're in a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3955 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - Hello, Have a quick question, I have dated a man for about two months. He texts me good morning everyday and we talk on the phone 1-2 hours on average a day. We also text a little during the day. He also canceled his online dating accoun...

I'm worried about my friend being lonely

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

29 January 2014 (?) - Hi all, Lately I have been very busy but I have a new man in my life. He is so nice to me and attentive. He tells me he loves me and misses me every day. I recently put some space between me and my guy friend because he has some anxiety and mental ...

It all changed after my co-worker and I had a drunken night together

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

28 January 2014 (F) - I have a co worker who had been chasing me for a couple of months. I went out with him a few times for drinks after work and we used to talk alot, he asked me out a few times outside of work, but I always ignored his advances and kept it in the ...

His Facebook has 300 women and no men on it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

28 January 2014 (F) - Hi. I'm having a hard time with my jealousy over my boyfriend and it has caused a huge fight between us and he is really mad and so am I because I feel he does not understand where I'm coming from and insists that it has to do with my previous ...

When we argue my girlfriend holds her education over my head!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

28 January 2014 (M) - Thanks for the responses in advance. I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for about 4 years now. We live together. She is ready to graduate with her masters degree and I have recently graduated with my bachelors (I was not accepted...

My girlfriend's ex boyfriend bothers her and it's starting to bother me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

28 January 2014 (M) - My girlfriend and her ex boyfriend don't get along very well now. They broke up last summer and she and I started dating a few months ago. They still talk and he is really a dick to her. He says some really mean stuff sometimes, but I don't know the ...

I've been feeling really ashamed of myself about some things and I wondered if I could have some reassurance or honesty

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

28 January 2014 (F) - Hey, I am a 17 year old girl and I've been feeling really ashamed of myself about some things and I wondered if I could have some reassurance or honesty. I wouldn't consider myself as slutty because I'm not that kind of person, I have morals, ...

I feel his loyalty lies with his friends! Any one else in the same situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

28 January 2014 (F) - My boyfriend of 3 years is the most caring and thoughtful person when it comes to just us - however this soon changes when his friends are involved. I made a huge effort with them including them on my nights out, letting them stay at my house, c...

My boyfriend never initiates sex!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

28 January 2014 (?) - Dear agony aunts and uncles I am having a slight problem with my bf he never initiates sex. We have been together for almost a year and I can remember only about five times when he has and we have sex at least four times a month I asked him why ...

I'd do anything for this guy even though he hates me and probably was never even a true friend to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

28 January 2014 (F) - Ok so I've been struggling with this for a few years now I and just want your guys opinions. I was a freshman in high school I didn't have many friends and was really quiet. Well when I met...this guy I immediately wanted to get to know him. This ...

Please help me keep the girl of my dreams before I lose her for good!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

28 January 2014 (M) - I met the most amazing girl when I was 19. She is one of the most intelligent people I have ever met, funny, charming, talented, kind, sweet, and so beautiful - Christ! this girl looks like a Victoria secret model. I just knew she was the one from ...

Should I go out with a co-worker of my ex? My ex suggested I consider dating his co-worker

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3957 days ago

28 January 2014 (F) - My ex and i broke up a little while ago, and we stayed friends. He left me because he didn't want to be in a relationship right now, since he had just got out of a long term relationship not too long ago. He says i'm an amazing girl, and I dese...

Is this a guy thing? Some he met online, some in real life or through gaming. Should it bother me that they flirt with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3952 days ago

27 January 2014 (F) - My problem may sound ridiculous to most, but I'm really hoping some can understand or relate. I'm having problems with my boyfriend and his female friends who he talks to on Facebook. About half of them he knows in real life, and half of them he ...

Why do girls suddenly distance themselves from a guy, when things seem to be going great?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

27 January 2014 (M) - Dear cupid I have experienced during my dating that sometimes girls suddenly distance themselves without any warning or explanation whilst you are dating a girl. (She doesn't like anyone else and she's single ). Why the sudden change in attitude w...