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writes:Hello, I have recently met a girl who is very keen on having a relationship with me, it has only been 2 months since we met and I want us to take our time to get to know one another better. She doesn't want to wait and keeps on rushing me.After last night's conversation I am starting to have doubts because she was encouraging her brother to cheat - she told me her brother cheats on his girlfriend all the time and he shares his intimate stories with her plus he asked her if he should sleep with his friend's cousin and her reply was if she wants it too then don't let her down. I am not comfortable with this, I don't know why but it just doesn't seem morally correct to me, it makes me wonder what she would do when we hit it off.Am I right or wrong to feel sensitive about this? I am wondering if we are better off as friends instead.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (12 May 2014):
 Thanks for the update and glad you dodged a bullet!
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reader, CMMP +, writes (11 May 2014):
Thanks for the update
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2014): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHello Readers, thank you for your answers, it has been many months since I have posted that question. I thought I should update you all. So in the end I insisted we stay as friends and she cut me off for a while. Recently, we met up and caught up. Apparently, she is two timing at the moment and it is keeping her happy as she said. I feel happy to have escaped :) thank you readers. Wish you all the best!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2014): I agree - this sounds not the beginning of anything but a mistake for you and her, your neither comfortable or compatable , I would escape quickly as I expect she isn't going to like it and the sooner you do be best all round.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (31 January 2014):
I'd run for the hills, the warning signs are all around you.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (31 January 2014):
Hmm you barely know her (2 months) and you are already seeing thing about you you don't like, I'd cut my losses - sounds like she has a whole other set of morals then you.
I would wonder too, if she would cheat on you at some point too, apparently she sees nothing wrong in it.
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (31 January 2014):
 You know those relationships where to get warning signs and ignore them, only to get hurt later on??? Well, don’t ignore these warning signs.If she is encouraging her brother to cheat, how do you know she is not cheating on someone else with you right now? Things that make you go hmmm. Thank her for the 2 months, and say goodbye.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2014): I think you should just stay friends. If you really felt a connection with her - something would already be developing. So it's not there for you in a real sense, I suspect. And as you question aspects of her character, then go with your gut feelings.
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