10 days and I haven't heard from him. Will I hear from him again?

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So I started talking to this guy on an app called Tinder and he was super cute and sweet and we talked for about 2 weeks and were talking about maybe dating and how much we liked each other already without even meeting. And then we went on two dates and they went well. I really liked him and he made me feel bubbly... I mean he gave me a little bit of the vibe that he was trouble but I just ignored it. The reason I ignored it is because I have written alot of guys off since my last relationship because I have been so afraid of getting hurt again... And after our dates he talked to me and stuff and we snap chatted but he wasn't loving and sweet like he was before our dates. So we talked for about 2 weeks after our dates. And I saw that he was still going on tinder and that bothered me because I would just go on to see if he went on... and it made me feel like he was talking to other girls even though he told me he wasnt. And so a week ago he made a joke that he had slept with another girl and I was drunk when I had read that and so I got upset and the next day I texted him asking if he had gotten with another girl and he said you're really starting to piss me off because that's not what I said and he said that he had said he had gotten with one of his boys as a joke and he was really mad at me... I said sorry for misunderstanding and we haven't talked since... And it has been 10 days now since we've talked... I know that he has had time to talk to me because he has been on tinder and he has been snap chatting other people... I am so upset and hurt because I liked him a lot and wanted to do long distance with him... He really convinced me that he liked me and wanted a relationship because he told me that he realized while being in the army that he wanted someone there... Im so sad because we had a connection and had the same favorite tv show... do you think he will talk to me again???

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