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writes:So I'm interested in a girl in a few of my classes. I began by just talking friendly with her, asking her for homework help, ect, and getting her used to me, as we are both shy people. It worked out well. We sparked a conversation after about a week where we talked for about an hour in class about everything. Me being horrible with the ladies, and us both being shy, I didn't ask her out or get her number. The next day, still thinking she's interested, I start a conversation with her, and she barely acknowledges me, responding with yes or no answers or quick mumbled responses. So, confused, I back off and wait a day or so to talk to her much more, and it seems to be over, her talking with me, not as much, back to the pre long conversation style conversations, about 30 seconds or so long. That's the first time it happened.The second time was Monday (about 2 weeks later). The same thing happened in class, the same class. We had a great conversation. She talked to me about everything, her day, my day, minesweeper, her weeks plans, my weeks plans, everything, more than I have heard her say to anyone all year. I get up the courage to walk her to her locker (with her friend who she walks with since her friend broke her leg) and the connection continues. Her friend is grinning and leaves us to talk after a while, letting me know that I'm talking to someone interested in me. We talk and I wait on her at her locker as she gets her things and we wish each other a farewell, smile and we both head to our classes. At this time I thought things were going great, and I was planning to talk to her a bit the next day, and ask her out to a Saturday afternoon lunch or something.This is when the curve comes in. I walk in and sit beside her " knowing" she wouldn't mind. Again, after she showed she was interested one day, the next day she barely acknowledges me at all. She responded with "yes", "no" and mumbled responses. This time she has seemed overtly tired, staring out into space, and sleeping through most of the classes I have with her. So again I've been backing off from talking to her too much, just being extremely friendly when I do, smiling.My question is, what should I do, should I go ahead and start forgetting about her, even though I honestly really do like her, since it seems that it may be destine for failure?
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reader, DiamondGirlx  +, writes (13 May 2010):
 Some girls have mood swings hun it might just be that, she seems like she wants to get to know you, i know you said you shy but TRY to pick up the courage to ask her out on a date at least you know then wether or not its something or wether its nothing.. and if she says no thats fine its better than letting it play on your mind. hope all goes well x
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