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writes:Would a guy really go out of his way to be friends with a girl and really just want to be friends and nothing more? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2010): My boyfriend and I met through my now ex who introduced us. I didn't think much of him at first after all he was my boyfriend's mate. I began to notice though that we got on really well and had a laugh. Then me and my ex broke up and my now boyfriend began to text me jokes and things each day. Then he started calling me at the same time each day and one day we chatted over 100 + texts. We kept telling each other we were friends. Eventually we ended up together and he now says he knew he was going to get close to me the first time he saw me. So the answer to your question, in my humble opinion, is guys who go out of their way to be friends probably DO want more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2010): If he was gay, yeah. One of my best male friends from when I was in high school (who had been in love with me before we became friends) recently confessed to me that the main reason that he and all the other boys hung out with me and my sister, regardless of whether they got with us or not, was because hanging out with us helped them get chicks. He said that when other chicks saw him and the other boys hanging out with pretty girls, other girls would be more intrigued by them. According to him, other chicks figured if we "liked" the boys then they must be cool or there must be something "special" about them. I don't know how effective that was in all reality lol. Truth is the boys we hung out with weren't bad themselves so I never knew they needed our "help" getting girls lol. But they were probably really immature so in that case maybe they did need our help.
I guess my point is that straight men always have a motive for hanging out with a woman. If its not directly to have sex with her then it is because she can help him get sex. And generally that is the reality...
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (12 May 2010):
 If he goes out of the way to be friends with you ,there is definitely more underneath .It is just like the tip of an iceberg.
In time , their intentions will be slowly revealed to you .
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