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writes:Hello everyone. My question is how do I find who I'm looking for. As in a girlfriend I care about and who cares about me. At least I think that's what I'm asking. Here is my story. I'm 16 and I hated middle school. I was very nerd looking so I had no friends... So I got like 2 hugs from one girl all throughout my life before high school. I got into high school and started to look better and make more friends. All I wanted was someone to love me and I wanted sex probably because it was overexerted to be really good. So I had one girl I liked and she sucked my penis (sorry for language). That was great but I ended what we had for some reason. Then after that I went girl after girl looking for someone. I did not end up doing much with them but messing it up. I keep doing it too. Sometimes it was because I liked too many at a time. So now I'm kind of called a man whore. I keep searching for what I'm looking for. So I finally have sex and its good but not as great as I thought it would be. So now I just keep looking girl after girl. I'm not sure what I want and that's also what I'm wondering if you could answer. What do you think I should do?All comments are appropriated. If it must be mean I understand I'm not the best person in the world.. Thank you and have a good night everyone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone.
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reader, crissyj89 +, writes (12 May 2010):
well, you're not horrible. You are just allowing the wrong head to do the thinking for you.
You need to be in charge of your hormones and these carnal urges. In order to find a meaninful relationship with someone, all that sexual stuff HAS to wait. A strong bond and relationship should be formed before you cross those bridges with a girl you like. Chances of you finding your One in high school... very slim. But you can find a girl whom you care for deeply, may share years of your life with, and respect. You wont want to be given pleasure right away, or if you do want it, you refrain from it, for her sake. Dont rush into that stuff otherwise, you're most likely in a sexual relationship, nothing long-lasting.
If you find that girl that you want to wait for, when it comes to the time to do those things, you'll want to give her pleasure too, not just receive it. You'll find that her pleasure revolves around your own, and because you care for her, you'll want her to feel good too.
So, for right now, refrain from sexual activity. Never ever rush that into a relationship. Just cool it, and you can find a special girl.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (12 May 2010):
 You are probably a perfectionist .For no girls can hold your attentions for long and you keep drifting from a girl to another , always searching for the perfect girl.
Learn to love a person for who they are . No one is perfect. Love and feelings grow with time .You cannot find true love at a moment's notice.
Those kind of loves are like dews drops on the grass and it disappears when the sun comes up.
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