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writes:I've been causally dated 2 guys but its grown to a time where I must choose one of them. The problem is I can't decide who.On the one hand I have this totally sweet guy who shares a lot of the same interests as me and we have very similar morals. However, I only feel moderately attracted to him, there is barely any spark but I think we get along really well and I enjoy spending time with him no matter what we are doing.On the other hand, the other guy is really nice to. We talk alot and we share some interests. However, we don't share the same morals and he is a social person whereas I am not really. The thing here is that we have a lot of chemistry .I would like some advice on this whole situation thanks.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (12 May 2010):
If you can't choose, then neither man is right and you're setting yourself up for failure. You're only moderately attracted to one guy, so he's not the One because at some point there will be another guy that comes along. And you don't seem to have too much in common with the other guy either. If your morals are different, and he is social and you're not, then at some point that will break down. I think you're much better off spending some time alone and looking out for the guy who is nice, and who you also have chemistry with and share the same values with. Neither of these two guys is right for you.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (12 May 2010):
 Choose the one that has the chemistry .It will be more exciting than the man with no sparks.
Choose the man who will put your priority first.
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