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Why do girls go back to the guys who dumped them?

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Question - (12 May 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 May 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, *rish27 writes:

This really is just a question having to do with a previous problem. But ill tell as much as i think i need to in order to fill you in. But ill try to keep it short. Well anyways theres is this girl I liked for awhile, i am not so close of a friend but we text a little. In the beggining of last scho year i was her friend. We talked everyday in our 1 class together. Well then some asshole apparently told everyone i asked her out on a date, but she has a boyfriend. I didnt though ask her on a date. Then i guess she got embrassed,we then didnt communicate or hardly look at eachother for 3 months( im going to kill this asshole someday....) Well then a half and a month ago iresolved this and became friends again. THen for no reason her boyfriend dumped her about a week ago. Now to the question. Why the hell do girls who get dumped by no fault of their own end up getting back with the guy who dumped her.I mean when they get dumped they get thrown into some emotional breakdown depression. They havent got back together yet ,but i know they will soon. I can tell because its like they act like it never happened I prefer a girls prespective but any will work.

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A male reader, Irish27 United States +, writes (13 May 2010):

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To the Anomynous female replyer.Well that helps a little. Thanks.But for your issue if its what it is like with the girl in my post, there are other people who most likely like you. So if the guys a dick he will end up sometime doing the samething again. So if you notice any other guys trying to talk or flrit with you now if your broken up. then they might like you. IM trying to send that mesage to this girl right now. But its not getting to her. What really sucks is that i had a better frinedship with hewr before she was dump now its like i dont really. IM like WTF going on haha. Good luck with your issue.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2010):

It's the rush of a bad boy for some girls and it can be because they really want to be with them. It happens a lot with girls, we get dumped and hurt very bad but still run back to the man that did it. I guess its because we get emotionally attached and men its a lot easier to get over things. I'm in this position right now and I'm asking myself the same question but love is blind and makes us do stupid things.

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