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anonymous
writes:okay so i was talking to this guy for about 3 months then he told me we should just be friends. after that he would still kiss me, hang out with me, and all that good stuff. The thing is though, he's been trying to get back with his ex even though i've done everything for him, and i mean everything. he doesn't want people to know he still hangs out with me. he keeps me a secret. so this past weekend i told him that i'll just leave him alone, even though i hate it, it will be for the better. well, he never texted me back! i want him to want me back, to realize i did so much for him. i can't text him first though, i'm not going to be weak. so how do i make him text me and want to hang out? that's all i want, for him to text me. i miss him so much and can't stand not talking to him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2010): I'm sorry girl... Life is a pickle sometimes... And no matter how hard we try there will always be some people that don't see that...
In my honest opinion he still likes his ex... That is his problem and I'm sure time will tell him what to do next... But you won't be of any good there...
I truly believe you have to stand in the hard way and just avoid him... I know its not easy, as a romantic guy I've been there, cried my share of tears for wrong girls...
But see a person who hides you from apart of other, don't deserves you girl... Stick your head up and remember you're a great girl why should want a guy that hides you from everybody?
Sounds stupid but I think people tend to like the ones that don't give them much attention... I think it's because on our subconscious mind we see that person as a complete and independent self... That transmits self-love too...
Remember if he really wants you he'll come... But if he's not he'll leave... And that's good after all why need a person that doesn't want you at all?
Sorry for the bad way kinda answer but if you Love yourself I advise you to endure...
Put your head up and be confident... ;) Go live your life u r better without him...
Best wishes, and good luck
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (12 May 2010):
 You can't force a horse to drink water if the horse is not thirsty.
He has told you that he only wants to be friends with you .He is only using you as a band aid for the pain of the separations from his ex. His heart is still with the ex.
No matter how much you feel for him or do for him , you will only disappoint yourself because in his heart,there is no picture of you .
If you want him to text you , you will have to use reverse psychology. Stop all contacts with him and go out and date other guys.He may feel that he has missed something.
When you stop all contacts, he will feel the pressure off and may see you in another different perspective.
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reader, Nic390 +, writes (12 May 2010):
 Well he obviously has an attraction to you so use that to your advantage. If you see him often flaunt want you got and get him to crawl back. Show him how much better you are than she is or you could just tell him how you feel.
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