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writes:I'm so confused right now, I've been hanging out with this girl for the last few weeks and we got on really well, then we admitted we have feelings for eachother and so I asked her to be my girlfriend yesterday, she said yes which I was overjoyed about naturally, she's lovely.There is flaws though, I'm 17 and she is 15, and I felt it's not exactly right from the very start but we got really close and couldn't help asking her to be my girlfriend. Now that we're seeing eachother, it feels even more odd, and I feel everyone is already judgeing me. We're not having sex, I've never seeked that in a girl, I'm really not like that.I really do like her and I don't intend to hurt her at all. I'm not sure what to do, I'm feeling a bit lost.I need some advice. Is 2 years really that much? Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2010): There is nothing wrong with that in my opnion as long as you dont sleep with her until she is 16 otherwise that is classes as statory rape and you have already said your not with her for that
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reader, wanttobehappyagain +, writes (12 May 2010):
theres nothing wrong in seeing this girl at all, and yes she is below the legal age for sex..but im sure you can both wait till shes old enough, if you really care about her let her wait until her birthday or you know what wait a bit longer, theres no rush..ever!!
you and her have fun together, they are brilliant years..enjoy each other..
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reader, Accountable +, writes (12 May 2010):
 So long as you're not pressuring her into anything sexual and her parents are fine with it, I'd say just let yourself enjoy it. My boyfriend was 20 and I was 16 when we started our relationship - we never felt the age gap. Some people do, some people don't, and if you guys don't then don't let what other people say bother you!
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reader, Fatherly Advice  +, writes (12 May 2010):
 You asked the wrong question. 2 years is not a long time or a big age gap, but. . .
there are a couple of lines between 15 and 17 that make you feel the way you do. The legal age of consent in the UK is the one you mentioned. The other is the school world versus the university world or the work world. Those separations are what is making you feel funny, not other peoples opinions.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (12 May 2010):
 As long as it's okay with her parents and you guys don't engage in sexual activity, I don't see a problem.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2010): Two years is not that big of a deal. 15 and 17 isn't that much difference in age. don't worry honey no one is judging you. that's not that bad just don't have sex yet. Waiting is better anyway. Hope everything works for you guys!
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reader, LilPixie +, writes (12 May 2010):
 Personally, I don't think there is anything wrong with it. And as long as both your parents are happy with your relationship then there shouldn't be a problem. Everyone has their own opinion, so yeah there will be people saying it's wrong. If you're not hurting anyone and you're both happy then what does it matter what other people think?!
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reader, Emaz help +, writes (12 May 2010):
 No it's not. im 18 in a couple of weeks and my bf is 23. It doesn't matter about the age gap or what anyone else thinks as long as u both like each other. And imsure people aren't judging you, even if they were....who cares!! But just remember that she isn't acutally legally old enough for sex yet soooo take your time with that stuff :)
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