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Archived questions from: December, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

How can I approach him without making a fool of myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - So i like this guy, he's a lot like me, shy backward and is very quiet. I asked him out a couple weeks ago online and he never said no. I see him looking at me all the time, along with his friends. No, I haven't approached him in school, and the ...

I'm afraid if we hook up I'll disappoint him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - OK So I will keep this short. There is this guy I like. Lets call him "Kevin" Anyways Kevin has been with a lot of girls. He was always the hook up type. Now he has decided to start looking for a relationship. I know he is serious because he has ...

He won't date me because we're 5 years apart in age

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - hey so i need some help here as i don't know what to do, I'm 16 and he is 21 next week we met on a work night out and instantly clicked, we were chatting and flirting and ending up snogging each other its legal I'm from uk, after a week of phone ...

My sister found out about my relationship and could ruin everything

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5111 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Hi M 19.. I'm in a very serious and sweet relationship with an amazing guy.. Here the prob is I dont know how but my sis got to know about my relationship.. Guess she read my messages or cards.. This the worst that could ever happen to me or ...

I'm ready for this relationship but he can be unreliable. How can I fix this relationship so he's ready too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5110 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - I recently got back with my exboyfriend, he asked me out again. I feel as if he's not ready for a relationship yet. I really love him. Im ready for him, but i don't feel he's ready for me. I don't know how to make him know how i feel. I've been ...

Should I be the one to 'cave in'? We haven't spoken for four days

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - This is kind of a followup from my last question. I haven't spoken to my boyfriend in 4 whole days now and I don't know if I should be the one to cave or not? http://www.dea...

He feels like a 'keeper' but I'm finding it really hard to trust his sweet talking words

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5111 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months now, almost 10. I love him, I think I'm in love with him. But I don't know, how can I be sure? How can I be sure he's in love with me? He tell me he's madly in love with me, and I'm the only girl he EVER ...

Promise ring goes on what hand?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5109 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - when you get a promise ring what hand do you generally wear it on?...

He may be confused, but now he's confusing me, and is he emotionally blackmailing me as well?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Hey. I am 17. I met a guy on a gaming website 6 months ago. We played games and there was a chat box there too.. So we chatted and played for a month. He is 22. I told him where I lived after a month and found out that he lived in the same area as...

Found out boyfriend is on dating sites, what now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Been going out with my fella for 6 months thought things were going well, he is supposed to be coming to see me tomm night, my friend has just seen him sign up today for a dating site saying same old me back for another crack at it. if he turns up...

Is he just sweet talking me or is he in love with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend tells me I'm the only girl he ever thought was beautiful, all the time, he tells me he thinks NO other girl is even close to cute and I'm the only girl he ever found beautiful. Is this true? Or is he just sweet talking me? Or could this ...

My BF has rejected me because he has a 'mental bock' about my previous relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Currently my ex-boyfriend broke off with me as he says he has a mental block re my past relationship which lasted for 5 years. I was with a guy who was married and when the previous relationship started 5 years ago we were friends and then we had a ...

I need to know how to french kiss by February

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - I Need Help , Im 14 And Im Supposed To Be Tounge Kissing This Boy The 2 Days Before Valentines Day And I NEVER Tounge Kissed A Boy And Im Scared I Will Mess Up So i Need To Know How To Do This I Mean Like Step By Step Anddd Were Going To The Movies ...

I love her, can't stop thinking about her, but she hates me. I need advice please

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

31 December 2010 (M) - I'm 14 going on 15 and there's this girl i really like, only thing is she hates me, and i don't know what to do next. I think it's because first of all i got my mates to ask her out, and second when she said to them that she wouldn't go with me, ...

Why is she with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

31 December 2010 (M) - Gonna try keep this short.Im 27, met my current gf whos 25, 4 years ago through her sister,who is also my work colleague,she gave me her phone number so we could chat on an IM chat service.We chatted for a month,i got to know she liked clubbing,took ...

I don't want to lose my boyfriend by telling him I'm pregnant with his twins, but I don't want to give them up or have an abortion either!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Hello, I found out I'm pregnant at 17 and to make it even bigger its twins! I am so scared to tell my boyfriend. We both noticed I was gaining weight but I stopped working out the past few weeks because it was too time consuming. I don't want to ...

How do I earn my boyfriend's trust back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - How can I earn my boyfriend's trust back? I didn't physically cheat on him. I'm going through a VERY hard time right now. I recently lost my family. We were separated with foster families. The reasons don't matter, the point is that I went to a town ...

We seem to have grown apart, is there a way back or should I go it alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Good evening to all and happy new year! Ive been asking myself why am i visiting this site? How did i came upon it, what led me to being here and the answer hit me - i know who i am, i know what ive achieved in life regarding work and studies and ...

10 fail-safe tips to bag that guy... Men, take note!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - How will you ever discover how to make a guy fall in love with you? What things attract a guy and keep him interested? Do you have the information to reach a guy's heart? Men are perplexing and most women just don't understand them. Here are some ...

Both of these men are crazy about me and I don't know what to do!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - im so confused and i have to make a choice soon. i have found myself in a bind dating two awesome men at the same time.the 1st guy is a recently divorced commander in the us army(i live in clarksville,tn-right next to ft campbell,ky). he treats me ...

First time he hasn't been in touch! Is it because of his son?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for the past few weeks. He is separated and shares a son with his ex part-time. Unfortunatly over the holidays he did not get to see his son and was pretty upset (understandably). During this time he was texting me a few ...

I just wanted to feel appreciated after doing a favour for him. It that too much to ask?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf broke up with me few months back since he said he got too attached to me and we got back together 10 days back. We work together. Yesterday he asked me do some of his work since he is going out with his friends. I too had a ...

I love him, but I get turned on by porn and not by him!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - I'm looking for help with my sex life in regards to a particular problem I've been having over the past few weeks. Me and my boyfriend have been in an amazing relationship for almost 2 years, and sexually active for just under a year and a half of ...

Should I violate the no-contact rule and text back or just totally ignore her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

31 December 2010 (M) - Hi, I broke up with my girlfriend 2 weeks ago because I caught her in a lie that she totally denied. Her lie hurt me and I lost all trust in her although I still have feelings for her. I told her that I was through and that I have given her many ...

Feeling sad, friend just got engaged yet I know I won't be for another 3 years!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - My friend just got engaged after being with her bf for 2 year. I have been with mine for 2 and I know it'll be at LEAST another 3 before my bf ever even considers it [due to training for his job]. I feel a bit saddened. I know I shouldnt compare ...

I'm obsessed with my ex and he's happy in a new relationship and going to get married! HELP!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - I feel worse every day. my boyfriend dump me five months ago for another girl. We worked at the same place and i cant avoid bumping in to him daily. he looks happy in his new relationship and am going crazy getting jealous any time i see him talking ...

5 years together and planning to move to another state, but we're having problems. Should I go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - I've been together with my boyfriend for 5 years, not engaged, ugh, but I do love him very much. We lived together once around the 3 year mark and broke up because he wanted to spend every waking moment with me. I mean, I love him, but I needed ...

Guys,what makes you decide to have a relationship / a hook up (sex only), or just to be friends with a girl?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Guys,what makes you decide to have a relationship,a hook up (sex only),to befriend with a girl? 1. If a girl is beautiful or sexy,but she has a poor personality or she's a b**ch,would you like to have a relationship with her?or just a hook up?o...

yea crush- still cant find the confidence to talk to him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5108 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - despite the last time i wrote to you, I had a problem with my promiscurity and men. Now problem two has re-entered my life. A boy I've liked for over a year now had just ignored me till recently when we started work and i really want to tell ...

Boyfriend of six months forgot my birthday. Dump him or forgive him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

31 December 2010 (M) - My birthday was a couple days ago and he still hasn't noticed. There are only two scenarios: He really did forget, or he's getting revenge on an argument we recently had. But either way... Should I reevaluate our relationship? We've been together ...

I'm chatting with my friends boyfriend and I think I may love him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5111 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - A few weeks ago, I moved to a new country. Before I moved, I became very good friends with a girl and I met her boyfriend of one year a few days before I left. We clicked instantly, and for the last few weeks we have become great friends, chatting ...

Am I too young to find the guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Hi, so there's this guy who were gonna call K-Fed. I'm 13 and I really love him. But he doesn't know that. This all started as love at first sight. When I first say him I instantly felt something so special about him. Last year he was in my math ...

Oblivious of the Staring

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5102 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - He stares, he stares a lot. We are in the same math class, by the third day he was sitting two rows from me, constantly staring. He doesn't speak at all and it took two months to find out his name. I've discovered he's painfully shy when we happened ...

Am I being taken advantage of?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - I want to know if he really loves me, or if hes taking advantage of me...or both if that's an option i don't know how to write this out because there's a lot i could say, so I'm just going to describe our typical day starting from when he gets off...

How do I meet someone when I work 13 hours a day?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5109 days ago

31 December 2010 (M) - Hey all Recently I met up with a friend of mine who came to visit for the Xmas holidays. She told me about everything that had happened to her this past year and somewhere in that conversation I found out almost everyone I knew had already lost...

Caught in the middle between a friend and a guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5108 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Hi I just registered on this website so this is my first time with all this stuff. My problem is I dated this guy. I was kinda pushed into it. I didnt know whether I really like him or not but I said yes anyway. A couple weeks later I broke up with ...

Should I keep dating when there is no spark?

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31 December 2010 (F) - Is it genuinely possible to fall in love with someone that you have no "spark" with? I am a divorced female, 56, considered very attractive for my age, intelligent, warm, funny, and been told I'm quite a "Catch". I have recently started dating a ...

Caught between friendship and relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5109 days ago

31 December 2010 (M) - This girl had a crush on my for a while, about a month and a half I think. I fell for her, and by the time I told her about it, she said she said I was the closest person to her, and decided we should stay friends because she was really afraid that ...

I acted standoffish because I've been hurt and now I'm worried I should have acted more interested

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - I met a guy and immediately clicked with him. I was fresh out of a bad relationship, so acted standoffish and not that interested. Now, I really like the guy. What do I do? I don't want to get hurt again, but I don't want to lose him! ...

Should I just make it clear that I'm attracted to older guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - I'm 19 years old i turn 20 in a couple of months. I'm only attracted to older guys say 24-28... I'm sick of feeling like its something i should be ashamed of So i was basically wondering do you think i should just make it clear to everyone?...

Is it just wrong timing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5111 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Me and him met, got to know eachother, then one night we made out. after that we hung out a bit more then we had in the past. It was going good. He had to move to a near by town to start his dream job. He invited me to come see him. I did. It felt ...

How can I get over girls??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

31 December 2010 (M) - I am a 23 year old and have real problems when it comes to girls. I cant seem to get over these 2 girls that I was involved with. One of these girls is my x girlfriend. We were friends for ages and kept rejecting me for other guys then after some ...

Do you think it's possible that we're actually in love at such a young age?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Hi(: Okay, as you all know adults and even other teens say when your in high school you think you're in love but you don't know what love is. Well, I've been with mmy boyfriend for almost 15 months now and honestly I can say I love him. I...

How far is too far, too soon?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5111 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - I was just wondering what people's opinions on this were. If you really like a guy and want to do everything on the first date, or at a party, or something, would you? I know in my head that for a guy to respect you and see you as more than just s...

If your girlfriend had only a single 2 minutes' sexual encounter before you were in her life,would you let that effect you?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - If you were a virgin before your gf and you knew that your gf only engaged in sex for a minute or two and realized it was wrong and stopped. And that was her only sexual encounter before you,would you let that effect you? I love my girlfriend but I ...

My soon-to-be boyfriend has no friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5111 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Hey everyone, I have a very close friend and we hve great chemistry. He has liked me for a while now he said, and he would love to go out with me. I told him I'd think about it, but I'm sure I'll say yes because he is such a great funny and cute ...

We have great chemistry. I like him. But what are your thoughts on fact he has no real friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

I need some dating advice please

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - Alright i need some advice on how to ask out a girl because every time i ask out a girl i manage always screw it up ...

Compliments, more compliments. But then he told friend that 'I'm not his type' What's his agenda?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - So im 19 and he's 30. My friend set us up to go out and everything. And it was nice. i ended up liking him, but i guess he didn't feel the same, because i am here and he is goodness knows where. So here's the thing, we went out and he told me, ''wow ...

I broke up with him and now he's with my best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I broke Up with my boyfriend a few weeks ago but 3 days later my best-friend started going out with him. And every time anyone brings up that it's horrible. What she did to me, she says that I did it to her, but I didn't. And I Was with him for half ...