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Archived questions from: 21 December, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Is delayed break-up sex such a bad thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5090 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - Let's say you dated someone who was a very close friend of yours. You broke up, but feel like you have unfinished business sexually. As in, you were both very enthusiastic and had plans/ideas that never got to be acted out (though you did have sex ...

I say I love him, but does he really love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - So, I'm 15 and I've been with this boy (he's 16) for about 4 months now. And I know that I really care for him and I love him but I know i'm not IN LOVE with him. he tells me he loves me and I say it back. but I always wonder if he really does love ...

Boyfriend troubles - gay/not interested/not sexual?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - Is my boyfriend gay/not interested/not very sexual at all? He and I have been together for about a month and a half, but we've only made out like 1 1/2 times. We made out once on Halloween, then about 3 weeks later we left school during break and we ...

How to confuse another guy into wondering if I like him or not?

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21 December 2010 (M) - So I'm in college, and this year, within the first two months, my friend told this guy that i like him. The thing is, when she told him that, I actually didn't like him. However, now I'm growing more attracted to him daily. He thinks/knows i like ...

Shouldn't I be the one she runs to when she's feeling down?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

21 December 2010 (M) - So I'm a bit new to this, but i thought i'd get some opinions. Me and my girlfriend have been together for about a month or so now, and the problem lies with her two guy best friends. She's known them about a year or so. Feels like she talks t...

Can you trust army guys?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - So here we go... last year an old flame comes back in to my life. We talk via email for almost a year. He is deployed in Kuwait and about to get divorce he said. "I never forget about you I have being looking for you for years". Im also married ...

She's totally ignoring the fact that I sent her three messages!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

21 December 2010 (M) - I'd like some advice please regarding a potential new relationship. A new girl started at work a few months ago. We get on really well, and have been getting to know each other. I recently suggested going out and we arranged it for the day afte...

Is it too soon to be thinking of going with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - Hello:) Me and my bf have been going out for three months and we said that we love each other. We have been said that this is the best relationship that wev ever had. however. i am in my 2nd yr of uni and he is in his 4th ... after his fifth ye...

Tell me, is there something I'm doing wrong, and is there something I could do to get out of this position...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - Hi all, I've been single for so long I can't even remember for how long exactly. I haven't exactly had any actual relationships before either, just 2 hook ups and a relationship that lasted 5 months but was long-distance and the guy was abusive....

I'm clueless with girls and in over my head... Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

21 December 2010 (M) - Needed to get this off my chest. Enjoy. I am a 21 year old male living in the US as a student and my name is Aiden. Girls confound me and I know virtually nothing about them and I have very limited experience around them. I have a female best frie...

Is it possible that he treats me seriously?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - I met this guy in a club three days ago, we were dancing, talking and, well, we had sex in a toilet (yeah, I know, but I was drunk and it was actually the first time I did something like that). After that we spent some more time together, left the ...

I think I'm losing him to his best friend... What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5090 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - OK my BF's BFF is now single. I didn't really mind if she was taken but I know she loves him. She told him herself after she found out about me. And now It sort of bothers me because it's long distance. And yesterday I asked my dad, who ...

Confused soul who thought she knew it all...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - Hard to determine what my relationship status is with this man however it seems to work for both of us. He's an aquarius and I'm an aries (both independent souls) Started off as friends who met online from a social network and about a month later ...

Did I do something to make him think I am not interested?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - I had been talking to this guy all week and he met me and my friends out on Saturday night. We talked the entire night and well into the morning. We fooled around a little bit, but there was no sex (oral or otherwise). We fell asleep and then ...

Is this lack of communication during the day, and seeing each other only once a week normal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - Hey, guys.. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 1.5years. I'm 25 and he's 35. Ever since we got together, there's one thing that really bugs me. his habit of not calling. OK lemme make it simple: 1. He never texts or calls from morning til...

Will he think I am desperate? Should I wait for him to ask me instead?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

21 December 2010 (?) - Hi aunts! So, I like this guy and I think he likes me. We do get along well (we work together) and I'd love to ask him out. I'm gonna see him tomorrow at work and I'd like to just casually say something like: "Would you maybe like to come over to ...

How can I make her be my friend again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

21 December 2010 (M) - Hi. Okay, so... I had a girl which was my best friend, we used to talk almost the whole time and being together a lot, I loved her but didn't tell her because I didn't want to ruin our friendship. One day she saw I had no mood, it was because of i...

Can you ever be friends with a member of the opposite sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - Hey, this isn't really a problem I was just wondering what everyone thinks on whether guys and girls can ever just be friends? My friends think one will always find the other sexually attractive but is this true? I've had lots of guy friends for ...

Why am I obsessed with a woman I don't want?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

21 December 2010 (M) - Why am I insanely obsessed 24-7 with a woman I don't want?...

My Guy Will Be Mad If I Get Him A Christmas Gift.!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - what should i get my guy for Christmas when he says he dont want anything from me? hes the type of guy that like to be the provider in the relationship! but hes reining my Christmas spirit because im so use to giving gifts on christmas! should i get ...

Does fighting make a relationship better?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - i have been with my 16 year old boyfriend for almost 7 months now, we dont fight at all some people say thats its better to fight sometimes it makes the realationship stronger? would anyone agree? we do have little moods with each other but not big ...

How do I go about making my next move?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

21 December 2010 (M) - I've a crush on my TA for quite some time now. Throughout the semester, I'd take advantage of her office hours constantly and is always willing to help me (though I know this is her job to do so), so we know each other by name and face. We already ...

Is she just teasing me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5090 days ago

21 December 2010 (M) - So we're on msn, me and a girl i like. We are not going out but things have started to happen since the christmas party. She's feisty and we know each other well. Next term at uni we want to spend time together alone and see how things go in private ...

How do I know if I'm still in the running?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5091 days ago

21 December 2010 (M) - I am at a loss here. I have tried. I recently heard talking about how she wants to work with this other guy just so they can "make out". Now, I'm not naive enough to think that she's not thinking about other guys, that's obvious that she is...but ...

I'm a guy who's not great at reading women. Can someone tell me if this girl likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

21 December 2010 (M) - Sort of felt up my abs at a party(she was sober). Touched my shirt where my stomach was. Smiles with me. Said she had a really fun time with me. Told me how she wanted to ask me all week to go to dinner with just the two of us. I saw her at b...

Mixed feelings for the guy I'm dating.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - I have mixed feelings for the guy I am dating. He lives out of town and we saw each other 4 months ago. Things were so/so but we continued to stay in touch as we seem to have some chemistry, albeit sexual. He's coming out over the holidays but...

I keep driving away the girls I like by being a wuss!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

21 December 2010 (M) - Hi, im looking after some really needed advice or a point in the right direction. the only problem i keep having with my realtionships is limited to girls that are really attractive or i consider special. i turn into the nicest guy/wuss which drives ...