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*llieb19
writes:I met a guy and immediately clicked with him. I was fresh out of a bad relationship, so acted standoffish and not that interested. Now, I really like the guy. What do I do? I don't want to get hurt again, but I don't want to lose him! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2011): Fess up fast before you wind up stewing in regret.
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reader, allieb19 +, writes (1 January 2011):
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Thanks for the advice. I will tell him and let you know how it goes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2011): Tell him before it's to late. I was head over heals for a coworker but he gave me mixed signals for nearly a year. It frustrated me to the point where it started making me angry and resentful. I got to the point where I couldn't stomach him and ended our friendship. A few months later I met a man on a dating site and never turned back even when the man that I worked with made every effort to win me back. It left me feeling bad for him because he really loved me but he held back which resulted in my meeting another man that was sure of himself and what he wanted. It's been 3.5 years now and we are happily married. The other man is still moping over losing me. I was there but he wasn't. If that's what you want tell him before you wind up moping like my coworker.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (1 January 2011):
 Maybe you could tell him why you acted that way and let him know that you are actually interested. I am sure he will understand and if he doesn't, he probably isn't the man for you anyway.
I hope that helps.
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