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Dating: Help and advice

Blushing dilemma!!!

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14 December 2010 (M) - I get embarassed whenever my girlfriend compliments me when we are just together or rehearsing in our band. I'm not sure why, i just do. She can just say something like "Very good performance there" and i blush like a fool. Its not an overly big ...

I seriously feel as though we're drifting apart and becoming more parents and room mates rather than a family and in love. Help!

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14 December 2010 (F) - Hello... I'm 21 years old, mother of a 5 month old son, and in a (soon-to-be) two year relationship with a wonderful man. He's a great person and father and I wouldn't trade him for anything in the world. But lately we've been having some problems ...

Is 21 too young to have a baby?

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14 December 2010 (F) - I'm just wondering... is 21 too young to want a baby? I've been with my bf for 4 years.. we live together and lately ive been wanting to have a baby, thats all i think about all the time... parents wouldnt like it too much i know that... i dont hav...

How can I get him to take control and man up?

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14 December 2010 (F) - I'm small for my age. I'm 17 and about 5ft 1. I've got a boyfriend at the minute but I have also had a few other boyfriends. When I was with past boyfriends because I'm small, they'd pick me up and to be honest I quite liked it. They'd be able to ...

What the heck is up with this guy? Does he love me? Does he hate me and like to screw with my head?

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14 December 2010 (F) - What's wrong with me? Ok, been on a roller coaster with this guy for almost 9 years now. Generally, I am an intelligent, independent woman, however, this guy is my kryptonite, he is my biggest weakness. Here's the situation in a nut shell. He was...

I thought there was hope for us... but now I'm not so sure... help!

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14 December 2010 (F) - three years ago I was going out with someone who cared so much about me that he wanted to marry me. I was hanging around with a bad crowd and drinking. I was given a choice stop or lose him. At the time I was in total denial of my problem and he ...

Can't put closure on my ex until I have some questions answered...

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14 December 2010 (F) - Me and my ex have been broken up for almost 4 years now and i have been in another relationship since then, a really serious relationship. it was my choice to leave my ex because we were young and there was a lot of problems going on. so some guy ...

If you were in such a good strong relationship would you only have eyes for your partner?

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14 December 2010 (?) - I'm currently in a really good strong relationship and was just wondering what peoples' opinions were on having crushes outside of your relationship. If you were in such a good strong relationship would you only have eyes for your partner? or is it ...

Should I be worried or is this just how guys talk?

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14 December 2010 (F) - I have seen chats that my boyfriend of 1.5 years has had with his friends. He is a doctor and has to leave for 3 months as part of his schooling. He and his friends are going together. When they were talking they said 'we need to go to the undergrad ...

Is this saying true???

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14 December 2010 (F) - hello, i was just wondering if anyone believed in the old saying never leave the one you love for the one you like because the one you like will leave you for the one they love? I've found myself in a situation that goes right along with this....

I don't feel anything for him whenever I see him.

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14 December 2010 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship with my b/f. We've been together for the past one and a half years now. I told him I'm a virgin and don't want to have sex now so he should please exercise patience which he did understand. Whenever he is not ...

I feel so trapped in this relationship...

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14 December 2010 (F) - Im too scared to leave my partner of 2 years. He is very abusive, he keeps threating me that he will make sure i will loose my job and that he will do something to my family. He is english and im from czech republic. My family is very importatnt to ...

Can I get him back by being with him as a friend (without benefits)???

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14 December 2010 (F) - My bf broke up with me a month back. Now he is sugessting friends with benefits with me. I said 'NO' since i still have feelings for him and i dont want to get hurt. But i am wondering can I get him back by being with him as a friend (without ...

8 year relationship over. Cant stop thinking about her!!!!

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14 December 2010 (M) - My girlfriend of 8 years told me on Thanksgiving that she is unhappy and wants to take a break. She has been my girlfriend for 8 years and fiancé for almost 3. We own a home together. This is so hard on me seeing her everyday and not knowing what ...

A rose for my rose...

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14 December 2010 (M) - I'm in a Long distance relationsip (1 year and 5 days, 123 miles away) I've seen her 3 times, I gave her a rose when we met the 3rd time, We're going to meet up every 2 weeks from next year, is it over the top to give her a rose EVERY time I see ...

How can I overcome my anxiety?

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14 December 2010 (F) - I have really bad anxiety, especially with my boyfriend and mum. For example if my boyfriend doesnt text me back all day I am worried he has been involved in some sort of car crash or has been taken ill. I get very worried and call his phone ...

She wants a chill date... how can I take things slowly?

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14 December 2010 (F) - Me and this girl have been friends for the past 5 years we play a couple sports together and have always been close. In our freshman year of high school she came out as a bisexual. Last year I came out as a lesbian. We are currently juniors ...

What can I do to take things to the next level?

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14 December 2010 (F) - Ive known this guy for like 5 years or so. The only thing is that i never meet him in person until like 5 months ago. We meet we talked about ourselves and so on. We recetly had sex and i was okay with it but im starting to develope feelings for ...

Everything was going so perfect, why did he do this?

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14 December 2010 (F) - hey agony aunts. ok so ill get straight to the point. i broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago, i was with him for 9 months, he was my first serious boyfriend. he wasnt right for me, i knew it and so did everyone else, he constantly questioned ...

Is he a player or does he mean it?

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14 December 2010 (F) - In the past I have always gone for guys I knew it would not work with, or guys I knew who were really just in it for sex. It worked for me at the time cause I was not ready for a realtionship. Now I am wanting to get into a Relationship, and have ...

Was he happy to see me there?

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14 December 2010 (F) - ok here goes. I saw this guy at the fire house. I was playing cards with someone. He saw me and walked back around the corner. He called his friends over to him and i heard him say OMG, she is here!But he had a big smile on his face. was he happy to ...

I sent him pictures of me in my underwear and now he is not talking to me! Should I wait for him or move on?

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14 December 2010 (F) - Okay, So i am in 8th grade. About 3 months ago i was talking to a freshman (9th grade) that i really liked. He had dated some of the hottest girls in school so i felt like i was dreaming, no i couldnt really be talking to him. He was sweet and ...

How can I change my taste in men so I stop getting hurt?

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14 December 2010 (F) - i have been in one bad relationship after another, i can't seem to break the cycle! i don't know if there is something wrong with me that i'm attracted to these same type of men but they are all alike. how can i turn my tastes to a different sort so ...

How can I find a decent man that will treat me right?

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14 December 2010 (F) - i seem to be attracted to the wrong type of guy and i don't know what to do.. I love the guy who is always up for a laugh, who can handle himself and who basically knows how to have a good time. ALthough everytime i get into a relationship with ...

She is not over her ex but I have fallen for her, should I tell her how I feel?

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14 December 2010 (M) - I am love with my friend whom I know like from a year. She recently broke up recently with her boyfriend and it was difficult for her to get over it coz she never wanted to break up. But this guy just told her that he doesn't have feelings for her ...

Why did he lie about a kiss?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - dear cupid,my story is there was this guy i had a crush on for a long while,and my friend was seeing his brother ,so we all went to the movies as friends but finally the guy i liked kissed me and i kissed him back and that was it,then the next day i ...

Does my cousin like me? I need to know for sure!

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14 December 2010 (F) - Hello to all. i have posted a question here. it was to know whether my cousin is interested in me. i have got 2 answers which tell me 50 % he likes you and 50 % he likes you but like a cousin. so i have still some doubt which i want your advice...

Is there a double meaning to this conversation? Should I be worried?

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14 December 2010 (M) - Hi, is my new girlfriend a masochist, or is it just sexy talk? The other day we wer talking on social networking and she said that she likes to "play", so i said that could mean a lot of things, so she said”i like to play with fire” so i said, when ...

Does he love that I'm sexy, or does he actually love me?

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14 December 2010 (F) - my boyfriend has told me he loves me a couple of times. but last time he told me he said i love sexy you so so much your my everything does that mean he loves that im sexy or that he loves me?...

He said he was in love with me, but ignored me for 2 months and now I find out he has a girlfriend!

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14 December 2010 (F) - hey :) uhm well i really like this guy and he really likes me too (well thats what he said) and after he told me he really likes me, he ignored me for about 2 months and i tried texting and calling him everyday... after all that i found out from h...

How can I be sure he is not a bad guy and he really is into me?

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14 December 2010 (F) - here is a guy with whom im friends with since 3 years...less than friends but more than an acquaintance...he had proposed to me once but i didn't feel the right chemistry with him to you know think about saying yes...but now that im single and he is ...

I've had a crush on him for over a year and he is leaving for college soon! What should I do?

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14 December 2010 (F) - Hi Ive been crushing for this boy for over a year now and sit next to each other in all the classes were in togther we are really friendly with each other . Hes leaving for college soon and i need to at least hang with him just to see him outs...

Is this guy interested?

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14 December 2010 (F) - I was at this party and guy only dances with me for most of the night. Granted I was drinking a little, he probably was too but not wasted. He was always nice and smiling, always found me protected me. We also kissed quite a few times, just while ...

Mixed up signals with a close guy friend.....

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14 December 2010 (F) - i've recently become good friends with a guy i've met at uni. because we have the same friends we often hang out as a group. he's told me before that he thinks dating friends is a bad idea. but recently, he asked me out. i'm not sure if it was meant ...

Although I'm attracted to men I can't stand the thought of them touching me!

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14 December 2010 (F) - Hello readers, I am a 17 year old girl, finishing up her grade 12 year. My question is a bit peculiar but..oh well. Although i am sexually attracted to men, i cannot stand the thought of them touching me. I have been kissed before, it felt ...

Will a good man be willing to have a serious relationship with a single mom of 5?

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14 December 2010 (F) - At the age of 15 I had a very abusive boyfriend. When he got me pregnant I broke up with him because I feared he would hurt my baby. I got back together with an ex-boyfriend and we wound up getting married and he has raised my daughter as his own. ...

He wants me to go to a music festival where the tickets are over $100!

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14 December 2010 (F) - Simple question: My boyfriend wants to go to a music festival this summer and I really don't want to go. Do I cave in and say yes to going or keep saying no? Some of his friends are going and he thinks it'll be good. We've been to many festiva...

I want to hold his hand, do I have to make the first move?

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14 December 2010 (F) - i have a boyfriend. we have been dating since last friday and we are going on a date saturday. we are going to the movies. do i have to make the first move? i wanna hold his hand so how do i do that? another question is a month ago he said on a sca...

He likes me and I want to impress him

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14 December 2010 (F) - so im interested in some guy and he likes me so i want to impress him.so hes good at drawing,hes black(im mixed so dont call me racist im giving info)ive known him since kindergarten,im popular like every one knows me and hes just with the crowd,im ...

Guys, what are your tactics to find out of a girl likes you?

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14 December 2010 (F) - guys, what are your tactics to find out of a girl likes you; do you try and make her jealous? how (ignore her, flirt with other girls obviously, ...) ?? do you play hot and cold? do you just outright ask her? I'm in a situation where one day ...

Is she a real friend? Or is she using me to get closer to him?

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14 December 2010 (F) - So at the beginning of this year my best friend Kayla got a boyfriend. Due to her boyfriends busy schedule with sports and all, usually when they're hanging out she'd invite me too (because we never really have time to hang). Her boyfriend doesn't ...