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Dating: Help and advice

I'm nuts about her and want her to know it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

15 December 2010 (M) - hello cupid. I've never been in any relation with any girl. now there's this girl whom Im interested in and we do the internet chatting, but its been a couple of months and things haven't even progressed to a stage where I can even express my inter...

Emotionally upset with boyfriend after anal sex and his past with prostitutes.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - I am feeling upset and insecure in my relationship of 10 months now. My partner is 53 and I am 38. He told me early on in the relationship that he went to prostitutes when he was in his 38 for about 3 months but stopped because he was wasting his ...

I think my relationship may be nearly over...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

15 December 2010 (M) - Ok. I dont know if its me but i think my girlfriend is kinda very selfish. I'm an artist and I need to keep my skills up in all sections I deal with. When i'm drawing or doing something in general she feels to be all affectionate, shes not like this ...

My boyfriend is completely unsupportive of my new business...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - Well, i've been with my boyfriend 4 years now. He is married with 2 kids, but separated, we've lived together abroad for 4 yrs while his wife n kids lived back home. I put up with this situation for 4 yrs then decided that it was time to put him to ...

Is it too much to ask that we spend our time off together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5096 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - Please let me know if I am being unreasonable. I have been dating this guy of 7 months and we have been living together for 3. During Thanksgiving break we visited some of his friends a few states away. Shortly after he told me they invited us to ...

Where do I begin to heal the pain learn to love who I am?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

15 December 2010 (M) - Dear Cupid perhaps you can help me, I am a 47 year man who has been divorced for 8 years, I have recently been in a friendship which sadly has come to abrupt end, for various reasons. The young lady in question has decided after a summer together...

I'm worried about his blue balls!!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and i always have foreplay without having sex because i told him i was a virgin so he sticking to his promise not to have sex with me. But when ever we are done, he always complain bitterly of having "blue - balls" to the e...

What else can we do to make things better in our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - hi i have been having problems with my relationship. my guy and i started going out 8 months back and we decided to get married, he has been having financial problems for which my family is not agreeing to get me married to him. the main probl...

Do you always bleed your first time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend of one and a half year wanted to have sex with me some time ago i cried and told him i was a virgin so he should please exercise patient because i want to get married before having sex. He understands that but said it isn't...

How can I tell her she needs to be more patient re sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

15 December 2010 (M) - Ok, my girlfriend gets mad when i cant get off when she is on top or giving me head? It gets to the point where when she feels like she is done, she just quits and goes to bed leaving me hanging. i dont know if she thinks that she dosent turn me ...

A whole world of hurt...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

15 December 2010 (M) - hey y'all I need some help. Let me start off by talking about my girlfriend. This girl is one of those girls that always makes sure you are smiling, she is just one of a kind. I could write about how much we are in love and how amazing we are ...

How can I make him happy and satisfied when we are together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5096 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been with my guy for some time now, though we are in a long distance relationship, whenever my boyfriend comes around and we are together, i don't know what to do to get him aroused. Whenever he touches and fondles me too i...

Am I over analysing here or is she losing interest?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

15 December 2010 (?) - My situation is this: I have known this woman for quite a while although it was more like we knew of each other rather than actually knowing each other. Anyway, we formally met about six months ago while out with a bunch of mutual friends a...

Does it sound all healthy to you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5096 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - I'm having some kind of "open relationship" with this guy and I'm not experienced in dating and relationships at all. I'd like to know if this sounds healthy. I met this guy online 11 months ago, met in person 10 months ago, he proposed a relat...

Why do some people seem to fall into relationships easier than others?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5094 days ago

15 December 2010 (M) - I'm 23 at uni and I get depressed when I see most people in relationships at university and get into them fairly easily. I have no problem asking women out (though I used to until recently) but then I seem to struggle to get into the relationship ...

Will me being a "long stayer" cause her problems?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

15 December 2010 (M) - Ok, Me and my girlfriend are gonna be moving in with each other, To make the long story short. we will be having sex a lot, and I usally last about 2-4 hours, We have had sex about 3 times and we have been together for 6 months, I just want to know ...

I really like her but she's dating another guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

15 December 2010 (M) - Ok the girl I like has a boyfriend. They have broken up and got back together a couple of times. When they are together tough I feel like she is always anoied with him. They are currently together at the moment. I am friends with her right now but I ...

Rebound dating: is it a bad idea?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

15 December 2010 (M) - Its been about a month since my girlfriend of two years broke up with me and I've been trying to get out of this "mopey" stage. I've been working out, painting, writing, doing my school work, hanging out with friends... you name it. However, it...

Am I staying because I am in love or because I'm just comfortable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - A lot of relationships where girls date a gamer, refer to the problem that he doesn't pay enough attention to the girl... but that is not my problem. He does pay attention to me, and if I do ask him to go somewhere or do something with me, he ...

What's wrong with me that I can't see that he's obviously not into me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - I don't know why I'm so into him and why I sit around waiting for him to call. I've been seeing this guy on and off for a few months now. Seeing is actually an exaggeration, more like saw him once and text often. I met at a party where he...

Am I weird?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - people make me feel a bit weird just because iv never had a boyfriend or done anything with a boy and its starting to get to me. i want to know if anyone thinks this is weird too. (I'm 18 if you're wondering) ...

Am I doomed to be the girl who passes up nice guys?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid. I suck. There's something wrong with me! I'm in an "un-labeled" exclusive relationship with a man whose good to me but has traces of Mr Hyde..I dunno. We'll call him Angelo. But this is the bad part, I've skipped over two...three..four ...

I'm having a hard time thinking that she's been with someone else...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

15 December 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been dating 2 years, and are in love. I was the first guy she had sex with and she was the first one i had sex with, and this was always really special to me. Recently she told me she was raped when she was 15 and was ...

Still jealous with past sex and love lives of partner.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

15 December 2010 (M) - Still jealous with past sex and love lives of partner. What is the best way to refrain from being jealous on a present girl with her past sex and love lives??? Considering she did everything in sex, how would i convince myself that it is ok to...

Why do I get mad at my boyfriend so much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years now but I always get mad at him like every day!! He tells me you need to stop tripping before I leave you I trip because he always prefers other people than to see me and it gets me soo mad! I love ...

It seems like our paths are meant to diverge?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - Two months ago I met a really great guy. We are taking things slow but are developing strong feelings for each other. I think that I can def see him in my future (although it's too early to be sure). The problem is that I need to get a Master's d...

I think he might like me but I cant tell if this girl is his girlfriend or not!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5096 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - I like a really really hot guy, he got a lot of girl friends( just friends) but he is pretty close to a few girls and I'm not sure if she's his gf... But I think this guy might Like me coz he does this funny thing when me and my Friend were taking ...

How can I get my parents to accept him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - I like this guy but my parnets don't agree with me . I had a 9 mouth old baby he treats him good n me too. What can I do so my parnets can accpet him so I can be his girlfriend...

Why do I never get it right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

15 December 2010 (M) - I was dating a girl recently and I thought it was going well but then she made excuses to avoid me and as a result we broke up. I'm 23 and I have dated 3 other women. The first broke up and got back together with her ex, the second was not looking ...

Feeling left out.......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - I have this best friend and I love her like a sister, but I feel that every time we go out somewhere together she gets all the attention and guys never even notice me. I know I'm not unattractive, or anything, but she's really pretty and guys are ...

Did I make the wrong choice?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - i really need someones help. for more than one year now i have been talking to a man who lives in argentina, we met on xbox and we have done a lot of stuff together. i live in the uk. we keep meaning to meet but problems occur which means we have ...

Its been a week and he hasn't called, should I forget about it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - A few weeks ago, my roommate was telling me about a cute single friend of her boyfriend's and she thought I should meet him. Soon after, we met when a bunch of us (friends) went camping together and I was interested, so a couple weeks later I ...

How Should I Treat a Guy Who Does Not Seem to be Interested?

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15 December 2010 (F) - I went on a date with this guy and it's starting to become pretty apparent that he is not interested: keeps giving excuses about not being able to get ahold of him, him not calling, yada yada yada...Though, he has told me several times (without me ...

There are no romantic guys out there!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - I just got out of a horrible relationship of five years. the guys was a dick and never really did anything special for me ..I'm starting to believe that there are no romantic guys out there, or guys that like literature, and stuff i like.. the guy i ...

How can I make him feel like a man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - How do I stop taking my boyfriends manhood from him? I grew up with a single mother and two older sisters. The women in my life have always been very take charge and motivated, like myself. MY boyfriend on the other hand is different. He by n...

Am I simply being needy or are my feelings valid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5097 days ago

15 December 2010 (M) - Well my relationship with my girlfriend was very happy in the beginning, and we both felt really happy to be around each other. She gave me a good amount of attention and affection to me and i did the same for her. However these past couple of w...

Do teenage boys like Asian girls?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - I am a freshman in highschool and have been told that i am very pretty...Keep in mind that I am asian. I was wondering if teenage boys find pretty asian girls attractive and want to maybe even date them. Have you ever liked an asian girl if so ...

Why is it that I find this one guy attractive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - I'm a little confused. I've always been interested in girls, ever since I first started finding myself liking someone. But I met this one guy recently and I feel things about him that I've never felt for a guy before. I know people would likely just ...

Do you think this relationship is worth waiting? Because I am almost at the of my patience's rope. Please help... Thank you kindly

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - I've been with my bf for 3 years now. He has a stable job, very supportive to me, but he was a bit slow when it comes to our relationship. We don't talk about marriage at all. I already asked him twice if he ever have any plans for our relationship. ...

How do I find out if he thinks of me as a sister or more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - I am in love with 22 year old , and i am 16. our families are best friends, and we talk ocassionally. our families are so close that i call his parents mom and dad. we have been on a vacation together, because our families went together. but we ...

How do you know if she is the one?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

15 December 2010 (M) - I certainly didn't mean for this to happen. I have been with this woman for 3 years and we live together. About 2 months ago I had a chance meeting with this woman I will call J. Literally, it was chance. I was sitting on this bench reading. Every ...

I have heard silences quite this loud!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5096 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - Theres this boy ive crushing on about a year now, and hes leavin for collage soon. We sit next to each other in all the classes were in togther we always talk in maths cause my best friend is on the other side so i can freely talk to him without ...