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female
age
41-50,
*ancakes rule
writes: I was just wondering what people's opinions on this were.If you really like a guy and want to do everything on the first date, or at a party, or something, would you?I know in my head that for a guy to respect you and see you as more than just sex you have to set boundaries and respect yourself and all, but in my heart, when I really like the guy, I just don't want to stop.It's not like I don't have boundaries, I rarely even kiss someone unless I've fancied them for a bit, but at the same time I'm worried that I might give the wrong impression.So, how far is acceptable? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, soon567 +, writes (1 January 2011):
Sex always confuses the situation, going part of the way would label you as a tease. Go all the way with a guy then you know what he'll think of you. Once you start servicing a guy and stop, he'll become angry and putting pressure on you to continue the act. If you go more then kissing then you're just an easy lay.
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