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Archived questions from: 23 December, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Is it possible to love someone but not be IN love with them?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - Is it possible to love someone but not be IN love with them? As in, like I care for you enough to the point where I love you but I'm not in love with you. I don't know if that made any sense. sorry! haha...

Am I putting myself in a bad situation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - Heyyy. I've dating my boyfriend for about 10 months. I'm a virgin and he's not. He hasn't relly pushed sex on me but I know he really wants to have sex with me, so sometimes it's a little hard to stop when we're together. Anyway, for Christmas, a ...

Flriting online but I can't be sure of his intentions, how do I proceed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - Right so, I feel I'm getting too old for things like this now but I'm curious. do you guys think this boy likes me? Normally I'd just think he did but I've been hurt too many times to take the risk. we met at a university event, he added me on faceb...

I feel really bad, I got my boyfriend aroused but went no further. Did I do something wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - I'm 13 and don't really know what love is and know that I wont find my true love for a long time. so I don't really want to be involved sexually but at the same time I do. And I'm allowed to. My mom will get birth control pills and everything. ...

Mixed signals...how should I go about this guy??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5088 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - Well normally I hate these type of questions but I'm desperate enough to want to ask. So, here goes: There's this guy in my uni, whom I have a crush on..We have the same classes and everything but I never really got to meet him until now. We ra...

I'm confused about this guy I'm dating, is he just not that into me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - Ok here goes, im 35 yr old woman who has been on 7 dates with a 44 yr old man, we met thru a course, and hit it off. he added me on fb and it went on from there. Due to his job he works long hours so i have only been seeing him once a week. I...

I fall for people that are much older and taken!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - I just got out of a five year emotionally abusive relationship been a couple of month and I seem to fall for ppl that are older much older and taken :( I am 24 and like men in their thirties is this normal? How can I regain self confidence? I feel ...

She has a male best friend AND a boyfriend--how is it possible?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

23 December 2010 (M) - The other day I met a young woman at a party. She was talking about how she was leaving soon, and her friend was picking her up. "He's coming in 15 minutes," she said. I was sort of interested in her, so I asked, "Oh, is that your boyfriend?" "...

All over me one minute, distant the next

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - About a month ago, I met a friend of my friend's while we were all on a night out (Let's call him Dave). According to my friend's boyfriend (Mark), when we (me, my friend and Mark) walked into the bar and joined their group, Dave pulled Mark aside ...

A blog post convinced me that I'm being used

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - I've been seeing a guy and we were together about 4 months, split up for about 2 but kept in contact and are now sort of back together. altogether we've known each other for about 7 months and I haven't slept with him though he has asked me and he ...

Do I like this guy or not? I'm so confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - Oh God, Do I Like This Guy or not?? Im so confused!! First things first, I'm 16 and really tall, 5 foot 11 inches, to be precise, and he is 6 months younger, but also 6 inches smaller than me. Yesterday, I had some friends round for the night...

How can I tell my mum about my BF when I know she cant stand the thought of "us" being together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - I have a problem that really bugging me. I have a wonderful boyfriend and we love each other and would obviously like to get married in the future. The problem is that my parents cant stand the thought of me being with him. My mom thinks he's not ...

Complicated relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

23 December 2010 (M) - I have (in my opinion) a very complicated situation. I really like this girl who lives in a completely different continent than I do. I met her in my old school, and shes nearly a year older than me. We didn't talk much to eachother since we were in ...

Is she just wanting to take it slowly, or is she stringing me along?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

23 December 2010 (M) - Hi, I am looking for some advice on this situation. I have been seeing this woman for a month and a half. We have gone on 5 dates so far. I am really interested in pursuing a relationship with this woman, but there are two things that are making me ...

What is a guy to do when he dates to find companionship, but can't commit because of baggage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

23 December 2010 (M) - Someone I know, who likes me a lot, but currently has a boyfriend, is still trying to get close to me and doesn't seem to want their boyfriend so much as me... and while I've already told them we need to just be friends, the whole of a conversation ...

We've known each other over a year now and have never had a fight! I thought it was healthy to fight occasionally?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - Please help me. You know how every couple has their fights and that it's healthy to occasionally fight with your partner ? Well that's not the case in my relationship. I'm only 15. Technically, I'm not dating this guy, but you can basically say iam. ...

Am I too young for love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - Am i too young to be in love ? I'm 15 years old. The guy i'm in love with is 2 months younger than me. We never officially dated, but we act like a couple. I have never fallen for anyone before, so i cant be sure if this is really love. I really ...

Is it possible to finally be together one day?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5088 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - Okay, i just turned 15. Imet this guy about a year ago and I'm pretty sure I'm in love with him, and he is as well. The thing is, he lives in NewYork, and i live in Florida :/ also, we never dated or anything. I lived in New York for a while, which ...

Should I just accept that I'll never find someone who loves me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

23 December 2010 (?) - i know many of you here who have read my past posts realize that i needed to move on from my gf who has thrown me on an emotional roller coaster. Many of you also suggested i find someone new now thats the problem the way i got with my ex was ...

Going on 20 years old with First Kiss Anxiety, what to do?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - I am 19 years old and I think I have anxiety. Honestly, since the 6th grade I have been planning for my first kiss and since it has not happened I am freaking for two reasons. 1) I am scared I will be a terrible kisser. 2) That guy will destroy my ...

After being hurt I have given up on love, but I want to start all over again. Where do I begin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

23 December 2010 (M) - Due to recent events in my love life I've been hurt an have given up on women. I need some advice on how to start back. Where can I begin?...

Me and my girlfriend both cheated on each other

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

23 December 2010 (M) - Its almost the end of 2010. In February of this year, my girlfriend admitted to me on a drunken night, two guys took advantage of her and they both had sex with her within minutes. Since she told me, I in returned confessed that I had cheated on...

I don't want to break up with him, but I cant take his flirting with other girls anymore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - Hi everyone me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 weeks but its our 2nd time dating, before it lasted 3 weeks and i really really like him like a lot and he treats me really bad. he flirts with other girls in front of me even when were holding ...

We weren't together then so why does it worry me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5088 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - My ex bf and I were broken up for a year and got back together 7 months ago and everything is great now. I found out right before we got back together he slept with another girl... it was while we were broken up but still sleeping together. This has ...

Is this guy interested in me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5088 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - There is this guy at work but we don’t work in the same building. The place I work has facilities all over. I first started thinking he liked me when I noticed him staring at me then he looked away. So then another time I said hello and he kind of ...

How do I get him to ask me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - ok, so Ive known this guy since 5th grade from band class. Im a total band geek and its my life and we have sat by each other in band everyday since then. for years we didnt really like eachother for competision reasons. but since weve been in ...

In need of flirting techniques.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5089 days ago

23 December 2010 (M) - hey, so heres my "dilemma" if you will i used to play straight, but now i'm "out" now, but ive only upfront and told my friends, not everyone in my college knows if im gay, but they dont know if im straight i need to know how to flirt with other...

He has Asperger's syndrome. I want his friendship. I don't want to be his therapist

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - Hi I was hoping that someone may have some advice for me here as I have not been able to find much anywhere else. I met a guy last week at a friend's party. I thought he was cute, so I approached him and started talking. He seemed caught off ...

I can't stop being jealous of her ex boyfriends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5089 days ago

23 December 2010 (M) - i've been with this girl for a little over 4 months and things are going pretty well, we're very affectionate to eachother,we have great conversations, and she tells me all the time how much she likes me. the problem is that i cant stop being ...

He is waiting for me to make the first move! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5088 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - okay if you have read my past two questions.. then you should know what i mean.. okay so my friend(my best guy friend) the guy i like is really flirty with me and we have talked everynight this christmas break.. even like just now he called.. ...

How do I find a guy that isn't fickle?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - I'm the type of person that doesn't fall in love easily and when I do I fall hard. My ex turned out to be a very fickle person, he falls in and out of love easily. So how do I find someone who is the same type as me?...

I have fallen in love at the wrong age and I'm unsure what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5088 days ago

23 December 2010 (M) - Hi I'm 14 years old, about 2 years ago I met this girl and we are now best friends but I think I've fallen in love. I know it's stupid to fall in love at my age but she is on my mind 24/7. She calls me about three times a week and I do the same. She ...

I have social anxiety but want to ask this guy out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - First off, a bit of background: I have social anxiety. I used to just be shy but its developed into a complete phobia. Its a problem for sure, but it isnt severe to the point where I cant go out of the house. The problem is that no one really knows ...

Do I wait for him to call?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - Just wondering what men think..... I met a guy for dinner that I met online... we hit is off great. Had a great time. Met for a second date... it was hot. Did some making out... I did not do it with him. Told him I dont do one night stands. He...

I just need a second opinion because my thoughts are not always rational

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5089 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - Right, I feel like a sleaze and know I am one... So please don't act as though I don't know... To start at the beginning, I had a boyfriend. I slept with him and he pretty much left me straight after he got "what he wanted".I was heartbroken....

Am I a female feeder? I have fantasies about my man gaining weight, Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - I have recently heared allot about male feeders but I think I might be one too? However, I am female and I have a boyfriend of three years. I'll call him "John". He's always been skinny, and he tried to gain weight: for his own self esteem and for ...

What guys do like red heads? Seems like Blondes are favorites.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5088 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - I've heard people say that most guys like red heads. Is that true? cause it seems like the blonde's are the favorites for sure.... What guys do like red heads?...

I feel she's going to dump me. And I don't know what to do about it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

23 December 2010 (M) - I've been with my girl friend for 4 months now and I love her more then anything. But she never seems to notice me. I mean I got her a nice £8 watch for Xmas. She got me the black eyed peas album. I feel like I haven't got her enough. She doesn't ...

Guys, do you lie about enjoying sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - Question for the guys: do you ever lie about whether you enjoyed having sex with your girl? And if you do, why? Just curious and would like some insight into a guy's mind, like what reason there may have for lying about it. Thanks! Background: my g...

How to I show her that I can be the man for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5089 days ago

23 December 2010 (M) - I'm 29, and have been working with this girl, 23 in my office for nigh on 14 months or so. She is the most beautiful girl ive ever seen. I noticed her straight away but didn't approach her for awhile so as to weigh up if she was genuine. We started ...

Can we be good friends again? The way it used to be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5089 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - this boy and I have been very close friends for a while and today, my friend asked if he liked me, and he said no, and now he barely talks to me now. He was always so nice to me, walked home with me and we would hang out with each other. But afte...

She's my close friend, but I want to get over my romantic feelings for her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

23 December 2010 (M) - A few questions about close friendship with a girl We have an intensely close and deep friendship. We have gone out for dinner together, spent time with each other on every possible occasion. She's been there for me through very tough times. I...