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Archived questions from: 25 December, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He treated me like a queen, but I wasn't ready. He said no contact, but I want him back

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

25 December 2010 (F) - So, here is the situation. A couple years ago, I went out with a guy who pretty much used me for my money. That relationship lasted nine months. It took me awhile to get over it, but when I finally did, I met someone else, and he was amazing to ...

Why am I getting emotional when we talk about having sex ?

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25 December 2010 (F) - me and my bf have been dating for a year and 5 months . we always make little jokes about having sex like " work me out (; " but then he'd say he really wants to have sex . we have sexual activity and have done all sorts of foreplay and were ...

He has a girlfriend yet he flirts with me!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 December 2010 (F) - Hey guys, so im 18 and recently started a new job, i really enjoy it and get on with everyone, especially this one guy. We started talking alot recently and i have started to have feeling for him, i think he feels the same as he majorly flirty, we ...

Should I flirt with him even though I have mixed feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 December 2010 (F) - To flirt or not to flirt, that is the question. So, I just started dating a guy 10 years younger and when he's not around I like him. But, when we are together I can't get pas the age difference and one minute i like him the next i don't (mixed f...

Scared, pregnant, freaking out and nowhere to go.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

25 December 2010 (F) - I'm still in highschool. I was with this guy for like a year now. We had sex and we used a condom. But the condom broke. And now I'm pregnant. My boyfriend broke up with me after he found out. Now he's with this girl that was supposed to be my best ...

How to make up with my gf after a fight?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 December 2010 (F) - Hey I've been dating my gf for one year now. we live far away from each other but we kinda get used to it. I always travel to her place to break the distance. She got a new job and she is always busy. She sends me a msg every morning and...

His penis just won't go in!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 December 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have tried to have sex loads of times but his penis just wont go in!! after trying for a while he gets freaked out and goes soft, its not because im not in the mood because im always really turned on and so is he. we do foreplay ...

In love with my best friends boyfriend...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

25 December 2010 (F) - my best friend's boyfriend and i have just recently realized that we both have feelings for eachother. hes fallen out of love with my best friend too. she doesnt know about any of this yet because were not sure how to approach it. i dont want to ...

How can I ever be appreciated for who I am, by him? Instead his ex was always better

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

25 December 2010 (F) - Hi, I've been with my bf for over a year now, and he often talks about the good old times with his ex. Well the thing is, he used to be quite attractive when he was young. Girls would do a lot of things just to be with him. He mentioned a lot of t...

What's missing in my life? I want to be able to talk and flirt with girls

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 December 2010 (M) - I don't know why I can't talk and flirt with girls as everyone does? I'm 18 years old. I yet haven't had a love as is my wish. This is because i lack self confidence. I do not know how to behave well in front of girls. I can't even speak conf...

Should I tell my parents that I have a boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

25 December 2010 (F) - Hi! well my problem is that i'm afraid to tell my parents that i have a boyfriend because maybe they will get angry. in the past, i was caught having a boyfriend but i lied to my dad and he warned me that time. now i'm junior high school, i promis...

Is it normal to feel like this? Am I doing something wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 December 2010 (F) - hi ive recently fallen head over heels for the most amasing girl in the world and i love her so much and wer now dating but when it comes to relationships i get really nervous i get sweaty palms i feel all like butter flies in my tummy so muc...

She added her ex on Facebook without mentioning it to me. Am I over-reacting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

25 December 2010 (M) - I've been going out with my girlfriend for a little over a year, and she says she wants to get married to me. I recently noticed that one of my ex girlfriends is a friend of a friend on facebook. I have not had any contact with her in about 6 y...

Ask her for a dance with me...get a "whatever" in response. Weird?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 December 2010 (M) - I liked this girl, a little while ago, but then something happened. I always tried to be nice to her, I was considering making her my girlfriend. I always invited her out, bought her drinks on the occasions she showed up (most times she would make ...

How can I help him change his mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

25 December 2010 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for almost 6mths, we live about 90 miles apart and hes studying and working full time. The problem is I love him but he wanted to break up, I contacted him after he broke it off and he said he still liked me but the ...

Does this show intense attraction or is it just an "in the moment" thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

25 December 2010 (?) - My boyfriend isn't someone I was initially attracted to..he's handsome in his own way but its something that grows on a person, because I didn't think I'd end up with him. When we used to kiss more than a year ago I would get these monster ...

Dating a man 20 years older I really can't see what I am getting out of this relationship

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

25 December 2010 (F) - I am 35 in a relationship (for 20 months now) with a man of 55. I love him, he wants to marry me, but i am hesitating. Sex is nearly absent (he has medical sexual problems), there is no financial security, and all issues that come with 20 years age ...

All my relationships seem to end with an abrupt "It's not you, it's me"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

25 December 2010 (M) - every relationship ive ever had has ended abruptly and has never lasted more than a few months. even though she says its not you its me, i just never seem to know why or how i can make sense of it bcos it happens so suddenly. just as all my ...

I like him but I'm really not sure where the relationship can go

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

25 December 2010 (F) - I met this guy sometime back online. But, he lives out of town. We went out twice and then he went back home. The second time he was here I told him I didn't see us together but after a few weeks I started missing him. So, we continued to chat via ...

Daughter's boyfriend is bad news and I don't know what to do about it!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

25 December 2010 (F) - I have a problem. I have a 15 year old. When she was younger she was told she could not date until she was 16. Well she has always been stubborn since birth. Anyhow she decided she didnt want to wait and started "going with" a boy in my mothers ...

Did I really lose my virginity? I'm not sure

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 December 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm a 17 year old girl and just recently had sex for the first time. But it didn't hurt and I didn't bleed. Does this mean that I didn't lose my virginity? ...

Can ''fate'' be used as a valid excuse for our break-upp?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

25 December 2010 (M) - It was a long, committed relationship. Now she keeps blaming "fate" for breaking up with me, and refuses to talk about it, as it is her own decision (which it is). I already cut contact with her, but she keeps writing to me trying to justify the ...

Should I stay with BF or go with my mutual attraction with his best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

25 December 2010 (F) - I am soon to be 14, and I have a bf. We r somewhat in "love" but I don't think it's working out. My other guy friend, Garrett has been acting weird around me lately also. Like in band me and Garrett both play percussion, and whenever one of us ...

Now everyone is way too curious or jealous about what I'm up to

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5086 days ago

25 December 2010 (F) - I finally have a boyfriend! i haven't had one since 6th grade. The thing is when my boyfriend asked me out i immedeatly put " in a relationship" on facebook. (well not RIGHT away, like 5 hours later). Well the only people who commented were my guy ...

My strategy failed: I lied to my bf saying I was pregant to try to get him back. Would telling him I miscarried work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

25 December 2010 (F) - OK; soo i Have an ex boyfriend and i am still in love with him... i would love to know how to get him back ? he is my very first love, but i think i made a mistake. Because i lied to him and told him i was pregnant, just to see if he would come back ...

Was this emotional abuse by my bf?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

25 December 2010 (F) - Was I in an emotionally abusive relationship? We dated for five years but in order for him to accept me, he wanted me to loose weight i am 124lbs 5'3 and he would sometimes be like, 'oh why arent you wearing makeup?'. or like, 'I dont want to hav...

Do girls like kissing as much as boys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

25 December 2010 (M) - I'm 15 years old and I have recently got a new girlfriend, the girl I'm now with has never kissed/necked anyone before and I'm wondering if I should be her first kiss but I'm not to sure since she has never really spoke about it? Should I try and ...

Am I being cynical thinking she's too good to be true?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

25 December 2010 (M) - I need you guys to read over this and tell me what you think because I'm not sure: I met this beautiful girl a couple of months ago. She is literally model gorgeous and then I mean like a victoria's secret angel, not a stick. Anyway, we got t...