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36-40,
*weetnsour027
writes:So I have been on two dates with this guy. We seemed to really "click". We have spent the last two evenings together and I want to spend tonight together too. I know that if we do I will probably look desperate or clingy. I also like to periodically text throughout the day to see how he is doing. I am afraid to ask to hang out, text him often, "cuddle" with him because I think he would assume that I am desperate. Although I don't want to deny myself, what I want to do or who I am (I am a very dedicated girlfriend when in a relationship). I constantly think about whether he likes me or if he is going to call me and I hate it. This worrying drives me crazy. I have slight issues with self-confidence but nothing major. It may have to do with approval from the opposite sex, but i don't know.I don't know why I fall so fast. I want to be myself but I don't want to screw up something that could be good. I don't know what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2009): well,
It could be that deep down you think you arent complete unless with a guy and once your with guy you want to be all in.
I know because im the same with women.
You really have to ask yourself is this coming back to me what I am putting out there. i.e. are you the one doing all the work , if you are then you do need to ace yourself because you might get hurt.
Love yourself and you will be fine.
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reader, princessjasmine +, writes (7 September 2009):
you sound like me. Read the book he's just not that into you, its kinda empowering. Dont text him, if he likes u, he'll text u/call u! If a guy likes u, he'll show u. It's tough, I know :( we're just supposed to sit down and wait for the guy. I HATE IT!
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