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writes:Okay, so here's my problem.I've really liked this boy for about 6 months now. We're good friends and we talk to each other almost everyday. I think he might like me too, I think he's shown some of the signs (Looking at me alot, getting nervous, being really nice to me, finding excuses to hold my hand and not answering when his friends asked him if he liked me). But there's a few problems...1) Around 2 years ago, I went out with his good friend. I ended the relationship a few months later, and really broke the boys heart. He forgives me now, but i know he still likes me. So the boy I like might not want to hurt his friend if he did like me.2) He's really shy. I'm not sure he could ever tell me if he liked me. I am also really shy and I dont think i could tell him either, so we might never know how eachother feels...I don't know what to do. I realy like him, and we get along so well but... I'm not sure it could ever work.
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reader, Duckyhelp +, writes (7 September 2009):
 I think do it on the sly over text or msn, by just asking him who he fancys, if he says he doesnt wana say, ask if u can guess, if he says yes, go through ALL the girls he is friendly with and tht your friendly with.
If he meantions one of them....then you know where you stand.
IF NOT then tell him that you will tell him who you fancy if he says 1st. Chances are by this stage its you.
I hope i helped you x
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reader, baebaebay95  +, writes (7 September 2009):
If you dont tell him now, you'll definitly reqret it. I promise you. So tell him now. It's better! If your too shy, text him, or just write him a note. You can't be shy forever. You'll never fall in love if you're shy, cause you won't be able to tell the one you love, that you love them! Get what I'm sayinq mamas? Good luck with the both of yuu.
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reader, Blod +, writes (7 September 2009):
 Right. How to cut this short?I think you should go for it. It sounds as if he might fancy you so why not? If you're concerned about hurting this guy, then consider taking things slowly or waiting. It could give you both a chance to build up some confidence with each other. That's if you're both happy with that. He could be waiting for you to make the first move. So if you're feeling bold, go for it! Be sensitive about his friend though.If you don't feel sure then what you could do is subtly flirt with him, drop hints maybe. Don't scare him but this could make him feel a bit more confident, and yourself too. If you make it clear enough how you feel then it could give him enough confidence to ask you out himself. You'll never know if it could work unless you try.Good luck X
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