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writes:Hey, guys;I met him at my mom’s job a year ago. From the beginning he would make conversation and smile and look at me a lot. Sometimes I wouldn’t talk much and he would as my mom if it was cause I didn’t like him. Time went by and I had to go to my high school prom. He asked my mom if he could take me. He called me that night and we arranged everything to go together. He came a few days before prom to meet my dad, see the color of my dress and show me his car, he wanted to make sure I was satisfied with everything, I guess. The big night finally arrived. From the moment he saw me he would tell me how beautiful I looked, and repeat the same thing a few times about my hair, my dress, everything. He would open the door of his car for me to get in and out, and made conversation all the way to prom. At prom we danced, and he would tell me to look into his eyes while dancing. Then he asked me to seat down with him a few times, I went and sat the 1st time, and he would tell me about the clubs he had been to (to dance), and would like imply that he wanted to take me dancing. Also when I said hi to a friend or something he would ask me if I wasn’t going to introduce him. However he sat down for some part of the night, and I kept dancing cause I didn’t want to sit. I kind of got mad cause of him not wanting to dance as much anymore, and cause I didn’t want to sit. I think he realized it, and danced for a while, and even danced the last song with me. When we were leaving I was still kind of mad and got the rose that guys put on their suits, well, I got it cause didn’t want to lose it, and he kind of tried to get it and I just gave it to him (not in a so nice way), he gave back the rose and said “take it, cause what’s mine, is urs too”. Also I needed to fix the back of my dress, he offered to do it, but my friend went ahead and fixed it first. And he was planning to take me to eat something or the beach but my friend needed it a ride and we had to take her home. Finally he took me home telling me and my mom that he had a great time and wanted to go out again. Next time I saw him was like a month later at my mom’s work. That day he was working far from where my mom works, a coworker went and told him that I was there. Few minutes later, he comes to look for water, when he sees me I noticed that he got nervous, he just said a quick “hi, how are u” and left. Last time we saw each other was at a restaurant, a dinner for mom’s work last December. He showed happiness when he saw me, wanted to sit next to me, but ended up sitting far from each other. At the end of the night, he came to me again, and asked how was college and everything in my life, said we hadn’t spoken in a long time, gave me his phone number and I gave him mine, and I would swear his fingers were trembling. Oh right after prom there was a party at school and I didn’t invite him, he found out and told my mom that he would have gone if I had told him, but that he was sure I had plenty of guys to dance with. Oh, well, we haven’t spoken since, but 3 months ago I sent him a message telling him about a job opening, and he just replied like 2 days ago saying he hadn’t seen the message until now. Oh well, long story ah, lol, well, thanks to the people that will take the time to read it and reply, plz do write something if u can. Just wanna know what u guys think about all these, if u think he liked me back then, and if u think he might still like me, and what should I do, and how do I know (signs) that would help know what he might be feeling or thinking. Guys too, write me plz.
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reader, kcuck  +, writes (9 September 2009):
He might think that you're not interested mayby give him a call or send him a text if his reply if positive or enthusiastic then he probably is enthusiastic if not then he has probably moved on
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