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writes:Hey Ive been in a Long distance relationsip for a year now and its going fine altho I find myself a little dependent on my GF that I have to txt her or call her most days ... recently she for no reason stopped contacting me and it did worry me a bit cos its not like her at all I could never get an Awnser off her phone and sent good few txts or emails which were were never returned .. I ended up calling her job to call her in work where she would have to awnser answer and they told me she quit her job .. I know she wouldnt just ditch me and Quiting her job is very strange she got back to me blankly saying everythings fine she quit her job and just do what I normally do .. I replyed I was sick (I had really bad flu) she said she wanted to call me for my sake but couldnt for hers .. Its worrying me that I havent really heard from her but this and stressing me out if theres a problem she wnt talk to me .. shes on my mind all day and all I want to do it txt her or email or call but dnt want to push her away ???? What am I supposed to do
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2009): Thats a really tough situation. Its hard knowing that someone you love and care about is going through a hard time and they arent opening up to you. I dont think you should keep calling her, messaging her, or texting her, it might just upset her more. She obviously has some things going on in her life and you need to be patient with her. Tell her how much she means to you and that you are always there for her and always want her to be happy. Tell her you understand if she is going through a hard time and you are there if she needs someone to talk to and open up too. Tell her you miss her and leave it at that. Give her some time to think about everything and hopefully she will get back to you and tell you whats going on. If she doesnt, then just try once more and tell her you feel hurt she isnt opening up to you and you just wish she would talk to you. Its never fair for us to put all our emotions into someone and not get anything in return. Just give her some more time to open up to you and see if you can make things work.
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