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How do I choose between friends?

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Question - (7 September 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 7 September 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, *entorix writes:

Hey.. so recently ive been going to my friends house often and he has an older sister (called celine) who is almost 15, my friend and I are 13. While I was there his sister had a friend round too called catherine who is almost 15 too.. so basically a few days ago they both told me they liked me.

Somehow it became a competition between the two of them who could win me over.. then my friend got involved, asking me who I prefer etc. he got quite naggy.

so ive got to choose between the two of them but its complicated:

I dont want to sabotage catherines and celines relationship. If I choose one of them, then the other will hate the one I choose, and the one I dont choose will hate me. Also celine has a boyfriend out in denmark, but there relationship is very bad.

So this is all a complicated competition.

Please respond asap :)

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A female reader, LethalInjection-x United Kingdom +, writes (7 September 2009):

LethalInjection-x agony auntYou don't actually have to choose either of them, and it would probably be better for all parties if you didn't choose either. As like you said, the other wouldn't be very happy.

I doubt anyone will hate anyone else for it, as it's not a huge thing, and any bad feelings probably wouldn't last for too long.

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