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writes:My question is I am 54 and he is 2 years younger and I know he was married to a younger gal that only lasted a few years. we have become friends eccept last night we consumated the friendship yet no major love sparks just very comfortable with. Each other. am I barking up the wrong tree?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2009): Let's see. I don't know what type of reaction you expected from him in the first place. At this age you know what this food tastes like, you don't usually get overly enthusiastic. If you haven't discussed about commitment prior to sex, you can as well do it now. Hopefully you will not be misleaded if he's your friend as you say, and you will be able to talk laying all cards on the table. You can tell him what you are there to gain in this relationship and see if that coincides with... what he is able to offer, and vice versa. Be prepared for any answer, good or bad. Also, you sound regretful for giving in too soon or without having a proper talk beforehand but it's not late to do it now and there is no point in saying sorry because as you say you are face to face to a fait accompli and at least you had a good time, sparks or not. And who knows what can follow, have a talk to him to clear your doubts, no pressure or load, just to see where you're going and how your friendship is going to pan. Best wishes.
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