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Guys: Was it right to let a shallow get the better of me?

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Question - (5 July 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 5 July 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I liked a guy a few years ago, though he rejected me when he was drunk about 4 times. He didn't care. He does the same sport as me, I left it for 2 years and I fell behind, now he's away ahead of me and he the same age as me. Now I'll never catch I'll be 33 years of age by the time catch him and I don't feel I can.

I got rejected and I lost 2 years as well, as well as grades. Now it's too late, he is away ahead of me and he's the same as me. I feel intimated by him that was 4 years ago.

He also has a new girlfriend and new car and he really doesn't care at all. He lives in that he is also thick skinned he didn't care about my feelings at all.

Now what do I do? I lost out grades by 4 1/2 years ahead and still feel the affects of rejection because he hurt me. I don't know if I can cope with it. Hes up himself as well.

He is a city guy and I am from the country life style I suppose that makes no difference does it.

can some one help me. I feel that people like him will always and forever have it good and I'll always get nothing but pain.

should i go back to sport or not becasue he is away ahead of me becasue i let him get the better of me.was that right to do let him get better of me??????????????????????

any male option would be nice i really guy point of view on this.

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A male reader, DLover Canada +, writes (5 July 2009):

I'm not a native english speak and I'm not 100% sure I truly understand everything, but I'd say he's not the love of your life, as the love of your life will obsiously love you, and never want to hurt you.

Don't do a sport just to match him. The most important thing is your hapiness, not his.

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