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30-35,
*imisoph3
writes:this guy told me he liked me and i said i liked him too, he asked me out and i said yes.then after 2 weeks later i told him that it felt more like a friend zone then boyfriend and girlfriend thing.so he asumed i broke up wit him and he always said he was " bummed" about it.then 4 days ago we had a show (modeing) so we were backstage getting ready and he told my friend that he thought that her friend was hot (not me another chick) then he told her not to tell her and he told everyone but also told everyone not to tell me.sooner or later i found out and i told him i knew and he said he didnt want me to know becuase i liked him, i told him i didnt care and i said "its watever" and i gave him the cold shoulder.while i was getting my make up done he took that opportunity to flirt wit that chick and of course the make up room has mirrors so i saw him in the back flirting.then during the show he set next to me (i pretended like nothing was wrong) and he showed me wat his fortuune cookie said and it said something about waiting will be worth it and i always told him just wait and maybe we'll be something in the future again so when i read it i laughed and he didnt understand wat i was laughing about til he re read it and started laughing too.affter the show he asked me to help him wit his stuff i said sure and then after that he said my name and that i was amazing. before i left i gave him a hug and he held me tight.2 days straight i couldnt sleep because i was thinking about if he liked that chick or if he still liked me ..so on friday i asked him if he liked me he said ya and i asked honestly he said ya then my phone died so i was iming the girl that knows that chick and she said she asked him if he liked me and he said yes i asked if he liked that chick and he said he doesnt know her that well to like her so i said ohhhe would always text first saying morning and stuff now he stoopped..i sent him a happy 4th of july message and he asked how i've been i said pretty good :) u and he said he was ok and then we texted for a while more like 5 text messages later he didnt reply back..i'm so confused does he actually like me or is he just some kind of a womanizer pleasee help me i understand this is long and i would appriciate someone/anyone just telling me if his intrested ...stillmy main question is should i let him go,keep chasing or let him chase me..againalso saturday his gonna be in the same flight as me and i want to make it less awekward.
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reader, mimisoph3 +, writes (6 July 2009):
mimisoph3 is verified as being by the original poster of the question i'm not sure he does so i dont think i should ask him out.i thought about it then i've realized that he textes aand then completly stops texting.like today he asked me wat i was doing and i said something and i asked him wat he was doing and he said some word and i was like huh? his like eating and i remember the name of the resturant so i said ohh i knew that..and then he said Dur and i just sent this :P and he never wrote back i'm waisting my time and i'm completly over it.
anyway thanks for at least trying to help me out but i think that i have to figure out wat i'm gonna do on my own as the days go by
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reader, idontknow416  +, writes (6 July 2009):
I think he still likes you. he just doesn't know what you want and he's probably scared. It's your turn to ask him out if you are still interested. It sounds like you guys are just playing the push pull game and it's getting frustrating for the both of you. he's trying to make you jealous and you are getting jealous.....just go for it!
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