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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My girlfriend and me were making out and until I unhooked her bra. She had padding in it, she ran out of the room in tears. I did call her a few times with no answer. She wont talk to me. She always problem her with insecureties. Like she wears my beggy shirts at the breach. Any idea?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2009): She was obviously embarrassed and caught off guard when you saw the padding. She may be so ashamed of her boob size that she can't imagine anyone else liking them just the way they are.
The only thing you can do now is to assure her that you DO like her, small boobs and all. She will be ultra sensitive about any and all breast comments, so make sure you don't comment on other girls boobs, not even in the movies.
You could also say something to the affect that you are an 'ass man' and that she has the greatest butt you have ever seen, this would take the pressure off her chest.
You could apologize for taking her bra off without her permission, tell her you are new at this and you were nervous and therefor forgot to ask her permission to go forward. Tell her in the future, you will not do anything without first running it by her.
Perhaps we are all off the mark on this and she has inverted nipples or some scar or mole on her boobs....we really can't tell. The only thing you can do is communicate to her that you like her just exactly the way she is. With time, as you get to know each other better, she will relax a little more.
Please let us know how this turns out and good luck!
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reader, iloveyhoo  +, writes (5 July 2009):
 she is most probably unsecure about her boob size. even thought you may be fine with it and her size, she probably compares herself to others and wishes she was a different size.
don't force her into anything as some girls really don't like their boobs as wish they was a different size.
often girls with small boobs don't really like their bra's being taken off.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2009): okay, well since im a girl i know what shes going through. when u undid her bra, she probably knew u were looking for something more... and she thought u would judge her on her body, and her bra had padding becuz she doesnt feel like her boobs r big enough. and when she wears ur beggy shirts to the beach its becuz she doesnt feel comfortable with her body. next time u see her, just show her that u appreciate her body but not in taht kind of way.... just tell her she has a beatiful figure and that she shouldnt be ashamed of it. hope this helped :]
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2009): Does she have small boobs? If so then im guessing shes very insecure about them.do not press her into her showing her boobs to you or you will just upset her further.dont feel bad as you didnt do anything wrong as you didnt know she was insecure about her boobs.Just talk to her and apologise for unhooking her bra and tell her shes beautiful and you love her no matter what size her boobs are.Just DO NOT press her into showing her boobs for you.
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