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writes:The most beautiful woman - physically and as a person - has been on my mind for a couple of years now. Then 18 months ago, we started seeing each other for drinks etc. We told each other we were in love and would be together just as soon as we could get out of our unhappy existing relationships. We have not 'consumated' our relationship apart from kissing and cuddling.Then suddenly six months ago she got a bit cold. Whever I saw her she would be smiling and tell me she had strong feelings for me. Then she would back off and her texts would be cold. She tells me she does love me, but nothing can happen at the moment. She won't be more specific and it's killing me.Whenever we see each other I can feel the chemistry and I know she can too. Why is she doing this to me and what do I need to do to make our relationship move on?
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reader, Vickett0410 +, writes (5 July 2009):
 i totally understand what you mean, But like you said you can feel the conection and stuff. and if that conections real then she'll come to you, maybe she just needs some time first. She could have other stuff on her mind right now. But talking to her would be the right thing to do i think. about how you feel
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reader, stinker10 +, writes (5 July 2009):
stinker10 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI really appreciate you kind people taking the time to try to help me. I'm sure there is an element of truth in your replies. But it's hard to act logically when you feel something you desperately want it so near yet so far. xxx
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reader, birchybabe15 +, writes (5 July 2009):
 She might be having problems in her family and her leaving her partner would make everything ten times worse leave her be and if its worth saving she'll get in touch x x
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reader, Vickett0410 +, writes (5 July 2009):
I think she's just feeling really bad about what she's doing to her current boyfriend. Because when she's with you in person, your the one on her mind. And she forgets she's already with somebody. But when your apart and she's around her partner then it's him, and maybe she feels guilty for hurting him?
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reader, vodkablue +, writes (5 July 2009):
i think shes playing you
shes getting an enormous confidence boost from you desiring her.
i promise you that if you found someone tomorrow she would be all over you like a rash.
shes getting a thrill from you chasing her. its not going to go beyond kissing and cuddling because shes having too much fun playing you.
im sorry this sounds hurtful but its the truth. you are far more deserving of someone who will appreciate your feelings for you. please dont waste anymore time on this girl you deserve much better
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