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We're back together, but I'm afraid to need him like I did before

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Question - (5 July 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 July 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *razyfeet23 writes:

I really love this kid and well we broke up for a little bit and those were the hardest months of my life. And now that were back together I'm extremely happy but I'm afraid to need him like I did before. And he's already told me he needs me but I don't want to tell him need him cause I might need him more then he needs me. I don't know what to do.

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A female reader, The Girl in the Green Scarf Canada +, writes (5 July 2009):

The Girl in the Green Scarf agony auntMy best advice is to NOT stop doing anything YOU love to do, whether it be going for walks everyday at noon or hangin out for girls nights every friday. Make sure to always have your own agenda and fit him into it when hes willing to fit into it just as much as you are. Good relationships have to have balance and you should never NEED you partner but you should always WANT them.

Goodluck!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2009):

don't be pushy, honey, you dont want to scare him off! Just be yourself, (yeah, they all say that) but seriously, just do whatever you want. you can try and find out, but to be honest, some things are best left unsaid.

be a little careful not to be clingy, dont call him everyday but by no means don't call him at all!

Just have fun, if it doesnt work out, yeah, it'll hurt for a while, but you'll get over him. love at our age is painful when it goes wrong, so watch out :)

jelly xxx

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