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30-35,
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writes:hey well theres this girl i really like at work and we get along pretty well but im gettin mixed signals from her like she will be really flirty one minute and not the next i know theres a couple of other guys that like her and shes talking to them as well i went to the movies with her and her friends the other week but her and her friends went with one of the other guys the other night so is she still deciding which one of us she wants to go out with or is she just playing with us? or am i stuck in the friend zone? im a pretty shy guy and the guys im competing with are like 3 years older than both of us and i dont feel i can compete with them. i may just be ove thinking the whole situation but i really like her. hope i made enough sense thanks in advanced for your help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2009): If she knows you're totally interested and she's dangling you and talking to the others like that, then you're probably in the friend zone. Smile and walk away from this one. You're just stuck in terms of the age thing. Girls like older guys and there isn't shit you can do about it. It just clouds their judgement or something. It probably wouldn't matter if were on your way to a ivy league school and working 2 jobs and the older guys were unemployed video game playing losers. She would probably still find some logic to see them as "more mature" than you.
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reader, Neboraic  +, writes (5 July 2009):
Dont worry about the age, there are many other things higher up on the girl priority list. At some point you need to declare you feelings to her and ask her to make a choice.
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