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male
age
41-50,
*singleton
writes:I was with a woman for about 2 years and after I met another woman we started dating a few months later. Since I've been with her everything was fine until this past new year's eve when I sent a txt to my ex saying happy new years. My girlfriend looked through my phone and seen I had talked to her and was upset why I didn't tell her I was with someone else. Ever since that day we have broken up numerous of times and we end up back together. She has a son and when anything goes wrong she is depending on me to be there and I'm never there. I want to be with her,but when we argue it always ends in a break up and me begging her back. Since the last time we broke up I went back to my ex and she has been dating. We just got back together and she insisted on me changing my number so I don't talk to my ex.I still love and care about my ex,but I don't want to hurt her anymore with me going back and forth from her to my current girlfriend. Should I just end it with my current girlfriend and be hurt and hurt her too or just get over my ex and continue to be with my girlfriend?
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reader, JOdieKinsZ.  +, writes (5 July 2009):
Mate, I will be honest. Never toy about with women, they will both get hurt in the end if you carry on this everlasting battle between the both of them, it's going to be hard but try to get over your ex because if you argue soo much anyway, she can't be worth it in the long run, and hold on to your current girlfriend, she sounds like the lift you need. Stick by her though, and never yo-yo with women again, it causes nothing but trouble.
Jodie.
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