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writes: been with my feller for 5 mths hes been going home cuming bk to see me, we are living apart at the momment wants me to live up north.I have got 2 tennagers im looking after its not fair to leave school has the only got couple more years before they leave school. Do u think hes using me he said hes not do i belive in him? Havent seen his family yet but only spoken to his mum couple of times on the phone. Am i rushing the relationship to quick? Reply to this Question
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (2 July 2009):
 no dont move any place. your children come first and moving up north will unsettle them.
also he sounds very selfish in making u move. why doesnt he move down to be with you if he cares so much?
5 months is too soon, give it alot more time before u make big decisions.
good luck!
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reader, "I hAvE mY oN pRoMbLe"  +, writes (2 July 2009):
first if he love you like he say he do than he should't have no promble with you waiting untill your kids get out of school . me personally i would't re locate my kids just because of a man, but do what you feel u should have to do remember its your life.
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reader, baby_101 +, writes (2 July 2009):
your not really rushing into the relationship but you need to keep things slow and give him some trust but not all of your trust...you dont want to go all in and end up with your heart broken.... give it time but i wouldnt move there after just 5 months of dating get to know the family before you decide to live together..... hope this helps
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