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writes:Hi, well im 14 and ive always dated black boys. im white and recently im dating a white boy, we're "in love" but i dont love him a lot because he is white but when i date a black boy i always love them so much but they play me. I don't know what to do i always wish that this guy im dating is black. Is it cause my first french kiss was with a black guy?? i dont know what should i do??? any advice??thanks~ Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2009): a child by any other name is still a child. your childish concept of loving. it should not be race but personality, how you are treated, morals, values. maybe this "white" boy should dump you and get with a "better white" girl. these other boys used you and dumped you, yet this other boy is with you, even though you have turned out to just be sloppy seconds. and now he doesn't measure up to you?? please grow up.
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reader, joe26  +, writes (2 July 2009):
 why only black mans?? you should pay more attention to the personality of a person not the color of the skin. theres nothing wrong being with this cool white dude if he treats you better. and ohh dont always think all the black mans are well endowed...seems your just having fantasy being with black mans.
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reader, Beingblack  +, writes (2 July 2009):
 There are plenty of girls like you around the globe who feel that they should only date black guys. I should know! But I would ask you to consider the reason why, at your age, you feel it is so important.
It's not cool, it's not going to help you in later life, and dating a white guy is (unfortunately) still more acceptable to a white family.
There are small differences of course. But don't get hung up on skin colour. Try to date a guy you feel comfortable with, and who treats you the right way. He could be black, white, green, or blue. It doesn't matter. His character and his ambition to do well at school are what really counts right now.
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reader, Renee okc +, writes (2 July 2009):
You should be grateful to have a man that treats you right instead you are knit picking why did you hook up with him if you know you prefer black guys (why if they are using you) you need to be grateful to your boyfriend for being good to you and stop having some fantasy of being with a black man iam not saying that you cannot find a black man that will treat you right you were probably dating losers anyway and thats why you kept getting hurt honey you better wake up and smell the flowers because in this case you are trying to find reasons not to be with him when in fact that maybe where you need to be sometimes change is good and in your case of always being a victim change would be a good thing you better get your head on straight before you lose a man that loves you .
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reader, Fifteen +, writes (2 July 2009):
Don't pay attention to the skin color, just focus on the personality(:
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