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writes:I was with this guy from age 17 until 24 we broke up 6 months ago when he left me for another girl. We have a kid together also, now his new girlfriend is pregnant - ugh. Anyway she left her husband, the father of 1 of her 2 kids for him. Their relationship is bad, theyve been together 6 months and have a child on the way and they fight constantly. He is trying to keep me around as "back-up" I guess. He says hes so sorry for what he did and that he loves me, at first I was vulnerable and had sex with him- just for the next day him and that girl "made up" and I dont hear from him for a day or so until they get in a fight again. Now I just want him to stop, he needs to live with the choice he made. I cant cut contact completely bc of our kid. He hurt me badly so when he apologizes I want to believe him. I'm not angry I'm just devastated. How can I get over him when I have to see him constantly? He keeps telling me the things I want to hear- but I KNOW theres no truth- bc hes still with her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2009): well he got what he deserved. karma is a bitch, at its best.
he took someone elses wife, destroyed your life and wants you as his spare wheel. you deserve better. let him rot in the hell he has created. you, move on, mourn the loss but be so glad he is not your problem anymore. he will still be your babys father but that is all. you are so young, your life hasn't even started yet. don't worry you will move on to better- better man, faithful man and someone who will treat you like the queen you deserve to be treated as. the start of your life awaits you. take time to enjoy this time alone, learn what makes you tick. enjoy being a mother then when you have fully healed you can love again.
good luck.
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reader, Renee okc +, writes (2 July 2009):
Let his dumb butt live with what he has done he doesnt have any concern for you or your child he is being selfish and you dont have to talk to him you can have a mutual friend or family member be the drop off point for your kid he is using you and doesnt try to hide it if he has hooked up with a dumb women then let him suffer he sounds immature and stupid iam glad you have come to the conclusion that he is full of crap find yourself a real man and move on with your life i would and watch his life fall apart.
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