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writes:I started dating my boyfriend 2 years ago and he told me he has a girlfriend but based on the girl's attitude he wants to breakup the relationship but all those times they had a quarell and i thought it will soon be over but the girl kept calling and texting to come back. After 9 months into the relationship i had clash with my boyfriend and i left his house in annoyance, the clash lasted for almost 2 months and during this time my boyfriend started dating the girl back and since then he has been dating the two of us based on the excuse that he will breakup with her. I don't know what to do any more, he is still dating the girl. I need sincere heartfelt advice on how to go about it.
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reader, Opsie +, writes (3 July 2009):
Thanks 4 all d advice but anytime i tried to breakup the relationship he comes back talking me back into the relationship,we both know his family except his daddy but sometimes i feel he is giving the girl attention more than me any he always complain that its my thinking.
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reader, GrimmReality  +, writes (3 July 2009):
 One answer and one answer only...and I will pose it as a question:"Why would you waste any more time on this guy who is obviously a loser. Why sacrifice your dignity for this guy if he treats you like this?"what I am trying to say is that as long as you accept this situation, it will continue. Only after YOU make the decision for him and dump him can you ever hope to begin to move on with your young life.Please do not let this guy manipulate your feelings. He doesent care about you. There are men who actually are honest out there. It may take some searching, but they are real...I PROMISE
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (2 July 2009):
 As long as you continue to put up with this sitiation, it will continue. Your guy probably won't give up the other girl, despite what he says. Why would he when he has the best of both worlds??. Do yourself a massive favour and walk away. Don't waste your time on a loser.
Aunty Em xx
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (2 July 2009):
 Break up with him. He's never going to break up with her. He is simply stringing you along with a line. You deserve someone who will be honest with you, not a liar like this guy. If you were the only one for him, she would have been a memory shortly after you met.
Good luck.
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