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writes:ok im really confused right now. im 13 and so 'was' my bf. wut i mean by this is he broke up with me(twice?) well we were dating for a very short time and when he first asked me out, the next day everyone knows about it? but this isnt wat the problem is. the preblem is, my friend, lets call her Sarah told me that her friend told her that my bf was gonna break up with me and date HER. so that whole class period we watched a movie(this was world gepgraphy and we were watching Planet Earth) i cried, but made sure noone noticed. i was scared to ask him if it was true(knoing sarah she did lie a lot) so i asked my other friend, lets call her jen,to ask him for me. so she did and he said it was all a lie. so i started to feel better about it. we spoke to eachother almost everyday on facebook and went on one date(which was a double date) after about 2-3 weeks, he sent me a private message that said he wasnt ready for a relationship and he didnt like me as much as he should...or something along those lines. i kno i shouldnt of, but i got really mad and started saying really b****y things to him. but then we worked it out and became friends. maybe a week or so later, he sent me another private message and it said that he was wrong and he misses me and that it was a stupid idea to think he wasnt ready? so we got back together. he always said he loved me and he misses me when i leave for only a few minutes to do something. not only but a week or 2 later, he sends ANOTHER private pessage saying he (once again) doesnt like me as much as he should and all that other crap. so now im really frustrated! so i told him that all those things he told me "he loved me" "he misses me" and wutnot, were all lies? and he was like: guess so. so i told him to stop being a smart allic to me(i kno i shouldnt of said that) then he said: im not trying to...i hope we can still be friends. and i made the biggest mistake and said: i think it would be better if we didnt be friends(bc i still really love him and it would never get out of my head. being friends with him would only make the pain worse) a few nights later, my friend Sarah tells me that my ex just asked her out??!!(ends up he really did say he was gonna break up with me a long time ago until i got suspisious)i started crying(again)and got really jealous. she said that the only reason he went out with me was bc his friends thought he liked his best friend(which btw is a girl he isnt gay or bi) so i began to think...but y he ask me out a second time??? and Sarah said he felt bad for me. at this point im really pissed but really sad. i knew not being friends wuth him was gonna come back and bite me in the butt. well after the last time we broke up he deleted me and did something to where i cant add him or anything!? so now i cant say sorry or anything!! i feel really bad now. but i cant stop thinking about him. he always pops up in my head no matter wut im doing in. we always asked eahcother wut the other would do if they kissed them. the answers always came out good :] but the real questions are, is Sarah lying to me to make me jealous? does my ex still love me? do we sound like we belong together? does this sound like love, or obsession? im in a real situation here!!!!!! i cant do this anymore!! i love hiiimmm sooo muccchhhh!!!! -pleaze help!!!!! im really depressed and dont kno wut to do??!! and sorry for it being so long. i tried to put it as short as i could. =\
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reader, im-the-one-to-ask +, writes (7 July 2009):
im-the-one-to-ask is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok so sarah ended up turning him down bc she thought it was wrong. and he just added me and he told me that he didnt hate me and he wasnt thinking when he told me all those things? then he had to go? i dont see wut he's getting at? now wut is he trying to do????
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (2 July 2009):
 sweety he is a loser! seriously you are worth so much more than your friend Sarah doesn't sound like much of a friend if you ask me the way she was being towards you.
now you need to get him out of your head he wasn't a nice person you're better than that!
you'll find someone so much better than him and you are still so young and you've got loads more relationships to look forward too this is just one to get you started :)
hope this helps chick
x ilovebowsandcherries x
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