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I can't climax during oral or hand stimulation but I can climax during self-masturbation. Any tips?

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Article - (21 April 2008) 4 Comments - (Newest, 29 April 2008)
A male Australia age 30-35, kenji writes:

Hey,

i'm 16 and i haven't really had that much sex before, but when my G/F gives me a blowjob or handjob i find it really hard to cum?

I've read the other posts, and i'm pretty sure it's not physological or physical cause it's fine when i have a good old wank!:P

Anyone got some tips?

Appreciated!

KeN

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A male reader, lovemorph  Australia +, writes (29 April 2008):

Masturbation is fantastic and we should all be able to talk about it becuase I feel everyone does or has done, but when you are doing it regularly it can reduce your sensitivity both physically and mentally, Why not abstain from both sex with your girl and having a wank for 2 whole weeks and then go and have it off with your girl and not your wrist and I bet you cum then. By the way the trick to abstaining is realising a wank starts way before you grab your dick, it starts with habit, it starts with boredom, it starts with reading or watching the wrong stuff, so be mindful and give it a go because honestly you are missing out on the best part.

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A male reader, Ahaham United States +, writes (24 April 2008):

Same thing here man

My girlfriend could never get me to cum

i had to finish it myself

but then i showed her how i masturbated

and she followed along

and badda-bing badda-boom

:] happy time for both of us

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (22 April 2008):

DoubleM agony auntIt sounds to me that you are very possibly masturbating too much. If you have a girlfriend willing to suck you and give hand jobs, why the hell would you spend any time or effort yanking? No apology for my opinion that it is ridiculous to screw your fist when your girlfriend is willing to please you. Geez.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2008):

look on line about how to give a blow job. your GF should softly like the vain on the bottom of your head. about one inch down from your helmet.... that will make you cum, if she keeps doing that while you are cumming it will be the biggest orgasim you ever had

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