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anonymous
writes:Have posted before,but would like advice on situation.BF of year told me not in love with me and just wants to be friends,he was having sexual problems and I feel this is the reason for him ending it as he thinks i woudl eventually.I met with him last night and we went to a movie as friends,he was cuddled into me and resting his head on mine.At the end of the night i got upset and he looked after me walking me home and brushing away my tears etc,anyone looking on would have thought we were a couple madly in love from his actions.We spoke about where we go from here and he once again said we can defintely have the best friendship as he doesnt want to lose me.I just dont think a guy that is nt in love with you is interested in being friends and giving up nights at the football etc to meet me instead at the pictures if there wasnt anything more than friendship there.What does everyone think,am I fooling myself and should i walk away or stay and try and see if it sorts itself out???
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for that,he is extremely self conscious and insecure,but over the year I thought I had earned his trust that I wasn't going to leave him.He did admit to me last night that he was still nervous in my company even a year down the line.I just dont want to put myself thrugh hell every time i see him only for it ever to be just friends,I def think he is trying to protect himself in the long run.Anonymous,what did you mean check your conscience?This was not fun it really was love for me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2008): Maybe he wants to know you better before you have sex again. He's insecure by the sound of it. Ask him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2008): First of all check your conscience carefully and thoughfully. Also is it just for the fun only you were in the relationship or for something more concrete? i guess take the time to ask yourself this few questions.
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