A
female
age
30-35,
*assie
writes:ok so me and this guy that i had met in the club 2 or 3 weekends ago has been talking on the phone tome since then.he is a nice person to talk to but the only reason that we talk on the phone is bcuz i gave him my number when he called i was so nervous and suprised,we are always in a middle of a conversation he always say (i'll call you right back but the problem is he dosent do so until 4 or 5 or 6 hours later).to keep him guessing i never call first i let him and he nags about me not calling him first and that i must not like him but thats the kind of woman i am.i told him that i dont call him first is bcuz it may seem as if i am chasing him or something.he always talks about us wanting to get together again on a weekend and stuff but every time it gets closer to the weekend he backs out and says he gots things to do.i already caught him in a lie bcuz when we first met i asked him did he have a job he said "no".so why when i asked him were we going to get together this weekend he said he has to go to WORK!!!!. i cant believe this if he lied about a silly little thing like that to me just makes me wonder what else is lying to me about?.so my question is to any one out there that can help me is (is this guy really into me bcuz if not then why does he waste his time calling me 6 or 7 times a day if he dont really want to spend a weekend together or for that matter any time with me?)i really need advice bcuz he is the oldest dude i have ever spoken to. Reply to this Question
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (11 April 2008):
 How old is he? Well, it sounds like he enjoys talking with you, but when it's time to make real plans he backs out. I'd guess he likes the flirting but isn't that interested. If he were really interested, I think he'd have asked you on a proper date already. As for the lie thing, doesnt sound good. Maybe he's really seeing someone else but is keeping you guessing? I just don't know.
How much do you really know about him? Do you have mutual friends? And does he know how old you are?
I'd continue to chat if you think it's a good idea, but stick to your guns and don't let him toy with your emotions!
Good luck!
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