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reader, sarah_s  +, writes (12 April 2008):
 Not necessarialy. If a couple feels comfortable with that why not? You don't need to tell everything if you don't desire too as long there's trust in the relationship.
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reader, Stayc63088  +, writes (11 April 2008):
 I think you should share anything you want to share. If there are some things you want to keep to yourself, that is fine. I don't know that anyone can say someone else knows every single thing about them.
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reader, MissKin +, writes (11 April 2008):
 i agree with the anonymous person. It's perfectly okay to keep some secrets. especially to do with the past. I have lots of secrets from my partner because i know if he knew them, (they're about my past and when i was a lot younger) it would put a strain on the relationship and would only hurt him because they hurt me.
i think things like this, it's okay to keep to yourself. if it doesn't add to ur understanding of each other. If it doesnt do anything good or productive then why share it? If it's just going to make things a bit harder, i'd leave it out. unless it's really important to you. then you should share it.
But having things that ur partner doesnt know is perfectly fine and healthy in a relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2008): No, not ALL their secrets. My fiance knows ALOT about me, but there are things that I haven't told him or anyone else. There are somethings that are okay to keep to yourself.
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